Mazzy is a very observant little baby. She stares at colors and shapes intently until she's sure she has completely taken them in. Every time I think she's moved on, she comes back a second later for another look. It is because of this penchant for observation, that I decided she would really enjoy going to a museum. And I, being a creative person who rarely takes advantage of all the culture NYC has to offer, would enjoy it too. Mazzy would surely study each piece of art in a way that would make me linger and appreciate it like I wouldn't have otherwise.
Because I live in the East Village and Mazzy is on a strict napping schedule, I made the brilliant decision of taking her to the New Museum which is close by. It opened up a few years ago and I had yet to go. I was probably at home catching up on numerous seasons of The Biggest Loser and The Bachelor so it's not like I wasn't doing anything culturally important. The current show going on at the New Museum was Skin Fruit which sounded innocent enough.
After we made our entrance donation, we ventured upstairs to see our first works of art as a mother-daughter team. A bonding moment that would surely become tradition for years to come. When the elevator doors opened, we were confronted with our first piece— a larger than life statue of a naked warrior woman spray painted gold with a pistol sticking out of her crotch. Lovely. Mazzy was entranced. "Look, shiny…" I said, as we spent ten whole minutes inspecting the woman's vagina. Next up was a large installation of half-human, half-pig like creatures having anal sex while rolling in money. Mazzy's eyes widened. "A pig says 'Oink Oink'!" I volunteered. After tearing her away, we rounded the corner and were faced with a ten foot tall man who was half covered in slivers of broken disco mirror and half eaten by numerous taxidermied squirrels. "Ooooo…can you see yourself in the mirror, Mazzy?" Her eyes settled on the squirrels. "Yes, cute and furry…"
And on and on it went. By the time we left my head was swimming with images that could at best be described as completely inappropriate for a small child. But Mazzy didn't mind, she had totally enjoyed herself. And I was right— she did make me see things I wouldn't have noticed otherwise. For instance, if I hadn't been staring at the flesh-eaten squirrel man for twenty minutes, I never would have noticed that he was also covered entirely in bits of real human hair. I guess 'notice' is one thing, but 'appreciate' is something different entirely. But that, I gather, is what 'art' is all about.
Oh-My-L’Oreal-Mascara that child has gorgeous lashes!
Buenobaby- I am so glad you focused on what is ultimately most important:)
Also— She does not get them from me!
In which universe is “skin fruit” the title for an innocent art exhibit? Your innocence is sooo endearing!
I’m going to be in NY this November. Would you recommend this museum? I’m not bringing C, though… so maybe better not! What fun is violent sexual imagery if you don’t have a toddler to help you appreciate it?
I would recommend the New Museum- although it will probably be a different exhibit by then. It’s a cool building and it’s right on the outskirts of Nolita which is the best boutique shopping/small restaurant area in all of Manhattan in my opinion.
And yes, my naivety has always been a little worrisome.
Several years ago, Mark and I took the girls to the San Fransisco Museum of Modern Art. Kallan was seven years old. ALL Kallan wanted to do was find as many portrayals of death and nudity as she could.
Turns out there is a lot of nudity and death at SFMOMA if you know where to look.
Kallan could point the way.
I remember having to TEAR her away from a huge blown-up photograph of a slaughtered cow.
She was entranced.
Snort!
OK, and the fact that I somehow misspelled San Francisco?
Yeah, that’s not going to bother me at ALL.
Sigh.
I looked to see if I could edit it for you but it doesn’t appear to be an option. I’ve read your blog though, so I’m fully aware you can spell:)
I imagine you’re not that cool with emoticons though. Now it’s my turn to be embarrassed.
So much of the art in museums like that leaves me scratching my head and wondering if I don’t have any intelligence or if it is the people who choose the exhibits that are lacking.
I would LOVE to see more of you!!! You post so many adorable things about Mazzy and Harlow, and I love it, but I love hearing about you, too!!! 😀
Oh, and maybe also an update about Ruth and Arami? I was so happy for her when you announced her pregnancy to everyone and love all the cute pics of Mazzy and Harlow with their “favorite baby”!
I’d love to see more Monday mornings on Mommy Shorts in 2016!
I want to see some more cute fashions! I love their outfits!
I hope 2016 brings more funny stories of misadventure like this one ????????
More stuff for the Mommyshorts blog… Stuff about boys! And another round of Wednesday evenings! Xo
I’d love to see more of your fav products
I would love to see more of Harlow unplugged in 2016! I seriously cannot get over her voice and dancing skills!
Wednesday evening posts!
I’d love to see more Wednesday evenings – love hearing stories of how different kinds of families make it work.
More hilarity!
I’m hoping that mommyshorts in 2016 will continue to include some fashion posts of the mommy behind Mommyshorts ????????
Would love to hear more about the ugly side if parenting-it’s a tough job!
I’d like to see more of the Monday mornings/Wednesday evening series. I love those so much! And of course more Mazzy and Harlow cuteness.
More day to day stories of your fun NYC adventures!
I would love to
More ideas for fun activities to do with preschoolers!
Love seeing the fun things you do with your kids, more of that please.
For swagbag entry-while I know that your blog is your income source but I almost feel like all your posts recently are based on some product your selling – whereas when I first started reading everything was less staged. I’m still a fan and check in regularly so I suppose even if you keep it the same, I’ll still read 🙂
I would love to see more of mazzy and harlows sweet dance skills! They are too cute!
I’d like to hear more about finding adventures for kids in the city and just to keep doing everything you are doing!
More Wednesday evenings or Monday Mornings! Loved both series so much!
Oh my goodness; I can’t imagine!
Would love to see more husband/ wife stuff. How to keep it going with the kids and work and all that!
I would love to see more of how parenting in NYC works! Being out in suburban Detroit, I can’t even fathom how you manage it there. I’m fascinated though!!!
I would love to see more Monday Mornings or Wednesday Evenings. Both were great series to read!❤️
What do I want more of? Reviews for family-friendly services available nationwide rather than just NYC? I don’t know. I love all your posts already!
I would love to see more Wednsday evening posts and some guest spot blogs on career driven women who gave it all up to stay at home.
I’m an avid snap chat follower…. Keep up the great work!
I’d like to see product recommendations from you and the girls! Maybe toy review videos.
In 2016, I want to see more of the same! I love what you’re doing, from personal stories to features on other families to giveaways.
I would love to see more Harlow dances and more of the sister love. Mazzy squishing Harlow is too cute!
More of what we see on snapchat – unfiltered life! Those are always my favourite glimpses of your family 🙂
I’d love to see more of Mike and his perspective. I feel like I know so much about you and the girls, and I’d like to see more of all four of you.
I’d like to see more travel tips- always looking for great ideas taking baby out and about especially during the holidays.
Me! Winning the swag bag ???? Seriously what could I suggest, I love all things mommyshorts! Keep doing what you’re doing lady ????
I’d love to see more of what you’re already sharing. I love every day posts of your family! Mazzy and Harlow are adorable?
More funny real life stories for 2016! at the end of the day we are all moms and so much to laugh at. You do a fantastic job describing just how ridiculous life with kids can be. Thank you!!!!
I love your wisdom posts about eating and sleeping tricks – would always love more stories like that!
I would love to see more of your personal fashion (especially the shoes!) and where we can get it. Also more craft ideas and fun activities to do with the little ones
I’d love to see more interviews with celebrities. They were hilarious!!!
And I would love to see more decorating/styling the home tips.
Thank you 🙂
Oh! Yes! I was just thinking how much I missed these:)
I would love to see more party posts, love your style!
I love seeing what outings you take your kids on! I’ve seen more of a glimpse into that on snapchatbu to blog Posts would be great too!
I’d like to see more about how to deal with three-year-old meltdowns! SOS!
I love photos of Harlow, and want more singing!
More Wednesday night series and kid anecdotes.
I would love to see more of the same! I have been a long time follower and love to see the daily happenings, especially on Instagram! They make me laugh and realize that I am not alone in this parenting battle!
Woops, I didn’t say what I would like to see more of! I love stories of life. 🙂 Every time I’m in the city (not super often, but I live in CT, so we visit every once in a while) I always think how fun it would be to run into you. My oldest daughter is just about the same age as Mazzy.
Would love to see more Monday Mornings!
I love seeing stories about Mazzy and Harlow. Maybe a few more developmental stories (like teaching Mazzy to read and tie her shoes and how you work on manners and social skills with the girls).
I love seeing what it is like for a family to live in a big city. Also, promoting or showing new products for kids is something I love to read about.
I would love to see more Wednesday evening posts and more product trials/recommendations with the girls! It’s always good to see other kids and mommies try stuff before buying it…reading reviews online can be so tedious, and there will always be opposing views. But I like being able to see you guys physically trying things out, it helps me better gauge if the product is right for us! Love everything you do!!
More of the Mommy Show! I love watching those ????
I started out reading this article thinking…Huh I haven’t been to that museum. And finished it with…..and I won’t be going anytime soon! At least not with my two boys. Those are questions I don’t want to tackle.
More stories like this one! Funny random moments or events. The hurricane post from a few years back is my all time fave. I like the true life humor.
I’d love to see more fun project ideas or activities to keep kids entertained & busy! What fun / educational things can you to encourage your kids’ interests? Much more of the same though, I love your blog!
I would love more real life stories!
More Wed evening/Mon am posts and more brutally honest stuff.
Loved seeing baby Mazzy!
I hadn’t seen this post before–hilarious. I would love to see more Wednesday evenings…so great to see how so many different families make it work!
I’d love to see more of the cool outings you guys go on and also more of the events you attend!!
I wouldlove to see more on life with a toddler and funny videos of Mazzy and Harlow.
Would love to see more product reviews. Also love the morning and evening posts about real families, would love to see another round of those!
My favorite thing ever is the Mommy Show! I’ve been following you for years though, so obviously I like everything you do!
I’d love to see more of exactly what I’m already seeing. LOVE your posts and pics!
Love everything you post! Your girls are darling and so are you! I love that you (seem to be) your self and real. I appreciate the realness! Keep doing what you’re doing. Thanks for giving away your “swag”….that’s a fun treat for your readers.
Would love to see more of everything! Seriously, love this blog!
Many people have said this, but I love the peeks into other people’s lives! It’s such a way to connect us all as people, seeing how we move through our days, how much is so different and so similar for all of us.
I love seeing your girls clothes. With a 3yr old myself and a brand new boy I am always looking for sweet deals.
More fun adventures!!
I’d love to see your family in a Monday morning/Wednesday evening type series! Maybe a bit more of the parenting reality 🙂
I would like to see more real life parenting issues that we all could relate to
I would love to see more pictures of your family together. I understand those pictures are harder to take but it’s beautiful to catch a good (or funny) picture.
I’d love to see more of your family adventures! And maybe another series like the Wednesday evenings. But perhaps a different theme!
In 2016 i’d love to see more convos with mazzy and Harlow. Your kids are hilarious!
My daughter (who is Mazzy’s age) would love to see more cooking with Mazzy (and Harlow!) videos.
I’d like to see more personal screw ups. Who doesn’t love the hilarity of someone else’s mistakes or bad days. 😉
I’d love to see more of the fun things you’re doing with your girls. I’ve recently moved to DC and seeing all of your posts and snapchats makes me want to visit NY very soon!
More Mazzy and Harlow posts in 2016 of course! 🙂
I just can’t get enough of Harlows singing and dancing! She’s such a natural!
I’d love to see more of your day to day stuff like you post on Snapchat, on the blog. I love your posts about the amusing anecdotes M & H do but I love the ‘boring’ everyday stuff just as much!
I’d love to see more Monday Morning/ Wednesday Evening posts. I love those series as they remind me all parents struggle and all have joy.
I would like to see more of everything you already post. Love the blog!
I would love to see more pictures of outings around the city. I moved to Oklahoma City from NYC almost a year ago and I miss it SO much!!!
I love all things mommyshorts!
More photo competitions!
2016 will be my first full year following you and I’m super excited! I’d love to hear more about you and your husband split up parenting duties and how you handle any differences in your parenting styles. Thanks!!
In 2016 I would like to see more of the Monday Morning/Wednesday Evening series. I loved watching how everyone changed their opinions once they saw their own mornings. I would like to see more areas of the country represented though, if possible.
Would love to see more of everything! Your sarcasm keeps me very entertained
In 2016, I’d love to see more about your girls and another series about “normal” families – really enjoyed getting glimpses into others’ lives.
More of the summer house, it’s a beautiful home!
i loved re-reading this post!! i would also like to see more about you and your hilarious stories of motherhood!
I would love to see more posts on how you make your marriage work with 2 little kids and 2 working parents!
I love product reviews! It is fun to try new products, and having someone test it before you!
I’d love to see more collaborative type of posts from the other moms in your life. You seem to be surrounded by a lot of women who influence us moms on a daily basis and great things happen when great moms work together!
I would love to see more of your day to day life and I love your product reviews. I also love the parties you have, the decor is always amazing