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Like most New Yorkers raising a baby in a one bedroom apartment, we don't have a lot of storage for anything, let alone outgrown baby clothes. And while our strict "one-in, one-out" rule keeps Goodwill across the street well stocked with gently worn onesies, it doesn’t do much for Carson’s future chest of baby nostalgia. So thinking about a clever gift for his upcoming first birthday, I struck upon the idea to create a Memory Quilt out of his baby clothes (and by create, I mean hire someone). Luckily, there’s Etsy, a site where crafty people sell handmade items to slackers such as myself.
After a bit of research, I chose Etsy seller Kellycreations123 because, one, she’s from Ohio and my husband is from Ohio (hello Cleveland!), and two, I liked her quilts. As per Kelly's instructions, I was to mail her 48 pieces of Carson's clothing and she would do the rest. (48!!!) We quickly realized that along with the stuff he had outgrown, we were going to have to sacrifice current-fitting outfits for the cause. Ugh. We dumped all of Carson's clothes onto the bed.
Thankfully we’d kept some early favorites, like the “100% Organic, Made With Love” receiving blanket that we brought him home in; our all-time favorite Dwell Baby one-piece that I say are hedgehogs and my husband insists are aardvarks; and a romper from Grandma that never truly fit him but we figured would earn us babysitting credits for immortalizing. Just forty-five more and we were good to go.
Do we sacrifice our beloved Mommy's Monster pajamas that he'd barely even worn? Do we cut up the amazing felt applique giraffe t-shirt from my sister that he hadn't even grown into yet? How many stripes are too many? Should we make two squares out of the hedgehog/aardvark shirt? Do I continue agonizing over this even though my husband is ready to kill me?
After one brutal hour, we were done. Or so I thought…
Since I work in the Garment District, I told Kelly I'd buy all the quilt backing and border fabric myself. I thought: How Project Runway! But then after facing store after store with literally thousands of bolts of fabric, I realized: How stupid! This was not a task for the, ahem, indecisive. Somehow I prevailed, and mailed all of the quilt parts to Ohio, rambling to the UPS guy about "the project" and how the contents were absolutely not replaceable! He grunted.
Kelly cut the outfits into 48 perfect 6-inch squares and emailed me a photo to approve the placement so she could start sewing. It looked amazing! I remembered Carson wearing each of the items while smiling up at me from his changing table (or crying impatiently because I'd missed a snap on the leg and had to start all over again). I knew I'd be gazing wistfully at this quilt for decades to come, or at least during those dreaded teen years while he was not speaking to me.
Then I was jolted out of my reverie. Why were there three dog shirts in a row? And didn’t the fish square look like it was trying to eat the dinosaur on the adjacent square? And why were the hedgehogs/aardvarks all the way off to the side? And really, weren’t there too many stripes in row 4? And here's another question: Do you put your favorites front and center? Or towards the bottom where they'll be seen when you drape the quilt oh-so-artfully over the crib ledge? I emailed all of my concerns to Kelly, who sent me photos of each new configuration while gracefully omitting the fact that I was driving her crazy.
The quilt is now done and it looks great. And next month I will present it to my baby at his first birthday party, surely charming any relatives whose earlier baby clothing gifts made it into the quilt.
And Carson, who will be naked, will be so pleased to finally have a cover-up.
I love this concept. Its my goal to make them for my kids once we settle on two.. or three..
And they make great quilts for adults with those concert shirts, race shirts you just can’t part with! Get them turned into a quilt or even a funky scarf to hold your favorite memories!
When my grandfather had passed after they had been married for 60 years, my aunt took all of his old shirts, the ones that were my grandma’s favourite, and made a quilt just like that one.
I hope to have more kids someday and maybe I’ll do that once we’re done!
I’m going to do this with all my husband’s old fraternity shirts. He refuses to get rid of them (ah, college memories) but it’s not like he ever wears them and they take up entirely too much space!
That sounds like an amazing idea. I wish I had thought of that when my grandpa passed away.
Haha I love this. You won’t believe this, but Kelly is my bestest friend in the world, and I can assure you that after helping me with my high school memorabilia quilt, Kelly is very patient and you certainly did not drive her crazy. She is really a quilting machine and she loves doing this kind of work for people! She is very creative and can often see the big picture for us indecisive types, and give ideas for fabric that, in my head would never work, but of course she is the expert and knows what she is doing! And she is still in her 20s, whatever consolation that might give that you aren’t sending your precious memories to be slaughtered by a grandma with liver spots and tremors 🙂
I am so Kelly kept her sanity in check! And I hear she is potentially getting some increased business from this post— glad to hear it!
hedgehogs. debate over.
Great looking baby quilt! We had a T-shirt quilt made for our little one by a company called stitch’T in NYC.
This is an a really cute idea. Not only do you get treasure the memory of your child’s clothes, you also get to pass it down to future children and add to it.
Great post. Thanks so much for sharing your knowledge! It’s great to see that some people still put in the effort to manage their websites. I will definitely be back soon.