If you thought this was a quiz about constipation, then the answer is most definitely NO. We're not talking about poop, we're talking about when to have a second child. Although poop and children are very similar so I can certainly understand the confusion.
A few weeks ago I wrote a (very controversial!) post for Baby Center called "Seven Signs You Are Ready to Have a Second Child". People wanted scientific specifics. I had none.
So. In order to truly provide a service to my readers, my dear friend Natasha formulated a quiz based on the science of "second child readiness". Natasha is currently pregnant with #2, so she is the Official Expert. Let's call her Dr. Natasha. I believe she studied under Mr. Mom back in the eighties at the Academy of Michael Keaton.
Editor's Note: Dr. Natasha is a real pregnant person but she is not actually a licensed physician. She was pre-med in college, but was god awful at all the science classes. When she returned for her second trimester of Organic Chemistry, she got a standing slow-clap from the other students, as the class was graded on a curve. She now works as a copywriter in advertising.
Take it away Dr. Natasha! (Just don't give us any essay questions please.)
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Are You Biologically & Psychologically Ready To Have a Second Child?
PART I (answer yes or no to the following questions):
1) Do you find yourself falling asleep while having sex, driving a car, giving a presentation, eating nachos, or watching your current child?
2) Do you find yourself wishing for a return to your pre-baby life of sleeping in, getting drunk and buying handbags without special bottle compartments?
3) Have you recently forgotten to wear pants when leaving the house?
4) Does the thought of having sex with your husband make you throw up a little bit in your mouth?
5) Does throwing up a little bit in your mouth make you cry?
6) Is crying something you do often these days?
7) Do children seem like giant cupcakes to you— like it would be sad not to have one, but two or more will make you feel sick to your stomach for the next 18-24 years?
Official Diagnosis:
If you answered “yes” to 3 or more of the above, Dr. Natasha advises against unprotected sex for the time being.
PART II (answer yes or no to the following questions):
1) Do you liken the smell of newborn baby to a mixture of toast and sunshine?
2) Has your child successfully weathered the first year or so without any visible piercings or tattoos?
3) Can you think of your breast pump without wanting to set it on fire?
4) If you ask your partner to feed/clothe/bathe/tuck in the baby, can he/she do so with two or fewer follow-up questions?
5) Do you consider five minutes of uninterrupted pooping a luxury?
6) Can you balance a sack of potatoes on your hip while making mac ‘n cheese while singing “Itsy Bitsy Spider” while cleaning spilled milk off the floor with a paper towel under your foot?
7) Is sleep relatively unimportant to you?
Official Diagnosis:
If you answered “yes” to 3 or more of the above, Dr. Natasha says to have a few glasses of wine, turn down the baby monitor, and get baby-making!
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There you have it. Science has spoken. How did everybody do?
Hahahaha! Love this. Amazingly, I can do #6 in Part 2…..
Sleep? What’s that?
I have 2 kids and this officially confirmed for me that I will not be having anymore. Thank you very much.
I have three kids, so #6 of part 2: piece of cake!
I mean, I put a condom on my mouse just to READ this post if that tells you anything. Also, my breast pump makes me want to set EVERYTHING on fire. Just so we’re clear.
OMG I’ve worn out THREE! yes Three mother f-ing pumps…sadly I’m still pumping. Guess this means no babies for me (thank god!)
Ilana, what did YOU score on the quiz??
I just choked on my oatmeal. love.the.chart.
Yeah, we’re one and and done…
Ah ha ha
Thank you for making a chart for my post! I’ve never been more excited about a chart in my whole life.
Crap, according to this, I’m definitely not ready for #2, but it’s too late! Oh, well, I’ve got the 6 months until he/she arrives to get ready.
I am waiting for the “Maybe Kids Isn’t Your Thing” chart.
5 whole minutes to poop?!
Thank goodness I had my tubes tied after the second child…
As a mom of 2, I’d say her quiz is quite accurate. But I had another kid, anyway.
More like “babies are like giant cupcakes. It’s sad not to have one but two or more makes you fearful for your health and waistline.”
Coming from a first-time mom of a five month old. Give me a few years and I’ll get happily suckered into the cupcake craving again.
According to this im ready…but in my head im not ready…yet
According to this im ready…but in my head im not ready…yet
So funny! I think if I’d waited til I was really ready to have another, I’d still only have one, instead of my three.
Actually, I might not even have one.
Okay, Dr. Natasha:
What do you make of this?
My kids are 12 and 14 but I still fall asleep eating nachos and I picked them up from school today wearing a sun dress and no bra or underwear.
Maybe it’s time for college?
(Them. Not me.)
p.s. I stayed in the car during pick-up. I don’t want my kids to COMPLETELY hate me.
Love this! It is the perfect questionaire!! Of course I have three boys so I might not be the person listen to!
Hahaha – very funny.
What if you’re a dad with an almost five year old and one due in (oh, let’s say hypothetically) 2 weeks? Is it too late to back out of the second one after reading your blog posting? Can I give the first one back as well? 🙂
Diagnosis: As long as you’re still eating nachos and covering your private parts, I think you’re AOK. Carry on.
I thought I invented the paper towel under the foot. It’s nice to know I’m in the company of like-minded brilliance.
Also, O-M-G with the FOLLOW-UP QUESTIONS!!! They are my kryptonite.