I really wanted to make my first post of the New Year as epic as last year. Do you remember last year? I posted a video of Mazzy called “Life So Far” and it remains my finest work to date. I started to make a video of Mazzy’s second year but the thing about the second year is that a lot of shit happens. So. I need an extra day or two for editing purposes.
In lieu of my amazingly awesome video that does not yet exist, I’d like to talk about New Year’s. Not New Year’s Day. Or New Year’s Eve. But New Year’s Eve Eve. Why? Because that would be the day when I called the cops on my dry cleaner.
Have you ever had a moment where you knew you seemed absolutely certifiably insane but you felt so justified in your actions that you threw all sense of decorum out the window and risked potential jail time?
That was me on New Year’s Eve Eve at the dry cleaner.
I am not proud of the story I’m about to tell but here’s what went down.
I tried on my dress the day before New Year’s and noticed it had a chipped jewel on the front. The jewels go all the way around the neckline so I figured I could switch the chipped one with a good one from the back and vice versa.
I show the woman at the dry cleaner and she says no problem, gives me a ticket for $8 and tells me to pick it up in an hour.
When I return, I find she did a shoddy job. She didn’t even use the same color thread. But, I figure with all the sparkliness, no one will notice and let it go.
I put a twenty on the counter to pay for it but then notice the chipped jewel on the back is misaligned and white thread is coming out everywhere.
I ask if she can neaten it up.
She says she can’t.
“Why not?”
“Because it’s broken.”
“I know it’s broken but it can still be sewn evenly with the other jewels.”
We go back and forth a bit. There is no yelling and I honestly don’t realize we are in an argument.
Then a couple of customers come in.
“I’m not dealing with you anymore,” she says.
Then, before I can blink, she snips the chipped jewel completely off the back. As I go to retrieve it, she snaps my twenty from the counter and puts it in the register.
(!!!!!!!)
“Excuse me, but you can’t take my money when you haven’t finished.”
“I did what you asked me to do.”
“If that’s true then how come I am holding the jewel in my hand?”
She ignores me, closes the register and begins to address her next costumer.
“Even if I agree to pay for this, which I am not, the ticket says $8. You’ve taken $20.”
She opens up the register, puts a five on the counter and says, “Here’s $5.”
(!!!!!!)
Now I admit, I acted fast and without thinking, but my first instinct was to go up to the register and get the twenty back myself.
She proceeds to swat my hand away and then, as if watching myself on an epsiode of COPS, I swat her back. There is half a second of crazy back and forth swatting of which I don’t think either one of us wants any part of.
(WHAT IS HAPPENING???? For the record, I have never hit another person in my life.)
We both start screaming at eachother. I am not quick on my feet in screaming matches and usually make the mistake of skipping straight to cursing which NEVER EVER HELPS.
“You either give me back my money or fix my FUCKING dress!!!”
She continues to service other costumers as I continue to completely lose my mind.
Also. Remember how I lost my voice? Yeah, well, that only added to how insane I must have sounded.
“You know why you don’t have a voice…” the woman laughs.
“FUCK YOU LADY!!!!!”
Yes, I was out of my head. But also 100% right. (Right?)
“If you have a problem, call the cops,” she says.
And so I did.
“Ummm… this isn’t really an emergency and I know this sounds ridiculous but I am not leaving this dry cleaner until the woman either gives me back my twenty bucks or fixes my dress.”
I then had to sit in the store for an hour waiting for the cops.
“Hi Honey, I’ll be home as soon as I can.”
“I thought you just went up the street to get your dress from the dry cleaner?”
“Yes, that was the plan, but now I am waiting for the cops.”
“WHAT???”
Long story short— cops come, get our stories, tell the woman to give me back my money or fix the dress, she chooses to fix the dress and then I go home.
NEW YEAR’S RESOLUTION #1: DO NOT WASTE PEOPLE’S TAX DOLLARS IN 2012.
(Sorry.)
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Okay. So now I want to know if anybody else has had a moment where their actions made them feel totally insane but they also felt like they had no choice but to act on principle??
For instance, Alyssa from Near Normalcy told me that some set of wrongs happened at Costco making her feel totally justified in stealing pizzas and soda. Do tell Alyssa, do tell.
All. The. Time. Eventually though, I learned to let a few things slide but because of my record now my hubby is still nervous about letting me drive in Istanbul.
“Honey, in Istanbul cops are just as useless as in NY, ok? Plus, by the time cops come, you might be dead. There are no gun laws in Istanbul. Honey, are you listening? Who are you calling?”
Evidence #1: Guy steals our parking spot in CVS. Guy has crazy pregnant lady follow him around in CVS cursing yelling at him. Guy tries to HIT crazy lady’s husband. Crazy lady calls police. Police looks at lady like she’s crazy.
Evidence #2: Wait, I can’t share that. Court orders.
Wow, your dry cleaner sure is a first class b*tch.
I admit, I’m not confrontational at all. I wish I was though. I did tell a couple of neighbor’s kids off for making noise in our mutual hallway and they turned around and yelled, “Whatever!”
Urgh, in my head, I’d turned around, walked back, snatched their stupid scooter off and marched off with it. In reality, I just shut my door and rolled my eyes at how rude kids are.
I think I’d have done exactly what you did. There is no way I’d have just let it go!
She started it by taking your $20 and not giving change. The rest is pretty evenly split between crazy ladies.
The real issue for me is: How come we don’t get to see what a bejeweled (or was it bedazzled?) dress that’s worth the cops coming to sort out its fixing looks like? Totally holding out on us.
And no worries about the tax dollars; I’m in NJ now, so it’s not my tax. Although somehow we still pay most of our taxes to NY. Hmmm. No wonder NJ is in such dire straits!
Wait – you wore a fancy dress and went out on New Year’s Eve? I need more info as I was home in my jammies..lol
I probably would have done the same thing as you did – especially since she didn’t give you your change. That is just plain strange. I hope you find a new cleaner.
I want the epilogue to this story. I would have taken the money back and switched cleaners. Did she fix your dress properly????
Pregnancy affords you a whole lot of leeway on the crazy. And stealing a parking spot is a wrath-deserving offense. I want to know what your husband thought of the whole thing.
I think think retreating back to your apartment with an undetected eye roll is called “maturity”. I need to take a lesson.
Thank you! That’s how I felt. There is no way this woman is getting away with this no matter how I look. Thank god the cops arrived in an hour, I have no idea how long I would have been stayed there.
I actually took a picture to accompany the post but it did not do the dress any favors. It doesn’t photograph well. It was gold satin with a bejeweled/bedazzled neckline. Perfect for a New Year’s Eve wedding- which is where we were.
We went to an overnight wedding which really was the best gift ever. Free food/drinks, the perfect amount of people and everyone up for a good time. Not to mention waking up in a child-free hotel room at 10am.
I hope they renew their vows every year.
Although, not sure my mom will babysit for free again.
It is actually not my regular cleaners. I have a very good long-standing relationship with my dry cleaners. It’s a newish place on my block (my regular guy is eight blocks away) that I was giving a try because of convenience. The task seemed very simple and like it couldn’t be messed up that badly.
While I waited for the cops, the dry cleaner phoned another woman to come and survey the situation. That was the woman who ended up fixing the dress and she did a much better job.
I will not be returning.
Obviously.
I knew where this was going, because, you see- this would have been me had I been in the same situation.
I don’t know when I suddenly acquired this temper that I actually ACT upon (do you?) but I think it has something to do with being a mom. I was never this crazy before and the injustices of the world are absolutely confronted when possible.
I think if I lived in New York I would be considered a public menace and in jail.
I know I have lots of these kinds of stories because I can never keep my damn mouth shut. Usually because of an injustice such as Yankee fans swearing so bad at an Oriel’s game where it was KIDS DAY. I almost got my ass handed to me on that one. I had no idea they were so crazy.
Then there was the time Hubs lost it at a gas station because some guy snuck in while we were waiting for a pump. He drove to the other side and yelled at him and the guy was all like “WHAT YOU WANT ME TO MOVE?!?” and Hubs said “YES” and the guy did! I died laughing because I couldn’t beleive that guy actually moved! I think I’m rubbing off on Hubs. Good thing because he’s calmed me down so much.
For the record I totally would have called the cops on her. She stole your money and I would have LOST it.
I was waitressing a lunch shift one day and this woman’s bill was 50 cents over what it should’ve been. My mistake and had she just pointed it out nicely, I would’ve taken care of it. But she went straight bitch on me and was berating me. Loudly. Then she tried to grab my book with all my tickets and money out of my hands and there was a skirmish. Then she went up to the bar and ended up throwing a pen at the bartender. It was surreal but you can’t let people push you around just b/c they’re obviously crazy.
I am not completely sure I would have actually called the cops seeing as I am completely non confrontational. But, other than the swearing (which you are right, never helps) I’m thinking you were in the right. She can’t just take your money. And the snipping the jewel off….BITCH!
Guess you’ll be looking for another dry cleaner in 2012 as well. What a terrible business person. What happened to courtesy and the customer is always right? Seriously I’d report her to the BBB, however my guess is you have more than a few folks reading your blog and maybe mentioning the name of the dry cleaner or hinting at the location would be better.
My problem is that I am totally non-confrontational in my personal life… when this shit actually MATTERS… so when random strangers do stupid shit, I have a lot of pent up rage that needs releasing. So the poor lady who cuts me off in the Target parking lot is getting the brunt of my anger at my mother, my guy, my jeans for shrinking and my bank account. Sorry lady.
I laughed out loud. I’m so impressed with you for going full on crazy. I would have sheepishly taken the dress, paid the $8, made some underhanded remark like, “I wish you’d used a different color thread” which would be borderline too soft for her to hear, and then ruined my and Luke’s NYE by bitching about it all night.
You’re better than me, I’m so anti-confrontation…. but at least according to the half of the story I’ve heard, you’re 100% right!
I’m still trying to resolve an issue where a lady backed into my car at daycare, didn’t leave a note, but someone else saw it and reported it to the owner. When confronted, she changed her story 3 times, but eventually admitted it. It’s not a lot of damage — cracked headlight, dent — estimate is $200. But damn if I’m going to pay for it!
So I tried to be nice and let them pay for it out of pocket, since it’s not likely to meet an insurance deductible. But they keep delaying and coming up wtih excuses why they are busy, and then I get shit like “Oh, well, I showed my mechanic the picture and he thinks it should be less money”. Finally I said, forget it, let’s go with insurance, but of course they went on vacation for like 3 weeks. Long Story short, I’m still trying to get this resolved. I’m a sucker for trying to be nice. I think your way was better 😉
I won’t lie and say this is the first time this has happened. There was another episode of crazy when my boyfriend had a minor seizure during one of those 3D movies where the seats move. The seat movement wasn’t synched up with the picture and I’m convinced that’s why it happened- I felt nauseous as well. We had a bought a pass to see four movies and this happened on the first. I demanded back my money, they told me to get out and I believe the cops got involved in that one as well…
Watch it— we are yankees fans here! But not ones that curse in front of children. It’s the people that smoke when children are present that I can’t stand. Which might compel me to make a passive agressive loud comment or so…
Something tells me the dry cleaner never would have pulled this shit on my husband.
I had to flip out on a cashier at the grocery store when my first daughter was a couple weeks old. I went out in what was practically a snow storm to get formula and since they keep it behind the counter (I guess people steal formula :/ ) I had to wait in line so the lady could get my formula. I waited for about 30 minutes for my turn in the line and tell the cashier I needed 30 cans of enfamil. She tells me they have NONE.. (I’m assuming its because she did not want to take her ass to service counter to look for it and bring back 30 cans because she has a long line). So I get out of line ready to leave and search for a store with formula but something told me to go look at the formula shelf behind the service counter. There on the shelf is probably 50 cases of the very Enfamil I needed. So I walk back up to the cashier and tell her that I can see the formula on the shelf and I need the 30 cans of formula. She then tells me “oh I thought we were out, you’ll have to get back in line.” and rolled her eyes. The line was still full of people, she was the only cashier, and I already waited 30 minutes the first time so being still hormonal and completely worn out from the lack of sleep and the stress of being a new mom I commenced to acting a damn fool. I began screaming at the top of my lungs about how my newborn needed her fucking formula and telling her I was not going to wait another damn minute for it. That then turned into sobbing (ahhh hormones).. finally the manager walked up and asked what was going on and I told her. She told the cashier to go wait behind the service counter and proceeded to get my formula for me. The good news was I think that cashier might have got fired because I never saw her again. :p
Holy shitballs, you may be my new best friend. I am 100% in agreement with everything that went down, including the f bombs. Sometimes they’re just fucking called for. I had a bit of a freak out with a cashier in the hospital parking garage after my husband just got out of a 6 hour surgery. I lost my ticket and the security guard told me I could just get another one and have it validated to save the extra money. She lady refused to give me one and just kept repeating, “Lost ticket is no ticket.” What the fuck does that even mean?! Whatever, I threw my money at her and SCREAMED through my tears, “I just want to get the fuck out of here!” I think she was pretty glad that there was bullet proof glass between us.
Good for you!!!! I would have had that argument IN MY HEAD AFTER I left the cleaners, so good for you! I’m living vicariously for you! You were totally justified for calling the cops & so glad they sided with you!!! HAPPY NEW YEAR to all the crazies :)!
I hate people. Own up to your damn mistakes and write the fucking check! Hope it gets resolved soon. We could all pay them a visit…;)
I also had an issue at Costco, where I bought a roll of 100 stamps. They give you this cardboard thing to pay for and then when you get to the register, they exchange it for a roll of stamps. Well, when I got to the register the cashier looked in her drawer and told the packer she was out, would she please go get another roll? Off went the packer,I paid, packed my stuff,and left. It wasn’t until I got home that I realized she had never come back with my stamps. I called and they told me too bad. I got VERY angry (that was $60!), so I went back (it’s a 1 hour drive from my home). When I got there I demanded to see the manager, who told me I was shit out of luck. Long story short, I demanded that they count their inventory of rolls of stamps, if they didn’t trust me. It should have been one off. They made me wait while they did count, and I was right.
In college, I worked at a steak house with a very ornery chef. People would want substitutions or to change things about the dish and the chef would always refuse. After a week or so, you learned not to even ask. You just pretend to ask and then tell the costumer “no”.
There was one woman who claimed she was allergic to butter and wanted to make sure it was not used in her dish. I went through my usual back and forth and told her the chef couldn’t do it, to get something else instead. She demanded to see the chef, got into a huge fight with him and he eventually agreed.
When I came out with the dish, I accidentally spilled some of the sauce on her head. I had nothing against the woman, I ask to have dishes altered in restaurants all the time and thought the chef was the ass. But she assumed I did it on purpose because we were all in cahoots and lost her mind screaming at me before she walked out without even eating.
I can’t say I blame her.
The snipping of the jewel was so unnecessary, right? If she hadn’t done that I wouldn’t have been as sure of my position and probably would have left with the dress.
She’s not my regular dry cleaner. Just the closest. We usually send stuff out to someone about eight blocks away but I was in a time crunch.
I’m not going to report her. I may be able to lose it and call her a “liar” and a ” fucking thief” but I’d definitely feel guilty if she lost her business over it.
However, I did briefly consider standing outside the store and scurrying people away while I waited for the cops.
I didn’t do it though.
Am I mentally ill that I feel equally enraged on your behalf? I think it’s awesome that you stuck around and actually waited for the cops to come instead of letting her steal your time AND your money. DRY CLEANING AVENGER!!! BTW, I totally think I know which dry cleaner this is. Uch.
You make me proud to be a New Yorker.
I figured you would be Yankee fans and I’m not above yelling at sporting events but these drunk guys were mother f-ing every other word and all these parents looked so uncomfortable. I’m a huge “loud commenter” and that’s what nearly got Hubs beat down.
Agreed, this lady never would have pulled this on Mike prob because she would have thought “this large dude could beat me down while wearing this jeweled dress”. Men have it so easy
I probably would have done the same in that situation. Luckily things have never gone that far for me yet, but lets just say I haven’t been back to the Coach outlet since I had to school them on why I absolutely was returning the $750 purse that was falling apart after 3 days. And yes I got my money back.
I think we could all agree that a reenactment mommy short of this would be epic.
Good for you for going smack-down crazy and getting your money – and dress – back!
🙂
Happy New Year!
Now I know for sure to never, ever fuck with your bling.
Also? She knew she was being bitch-ass crazy. I used dry cleaners in the city for many years, and can say this: they are either quietly over-polite and awesome, or crazy nut jobs on the brink of a disastrous scene. Seems you got the latter. Sorry.
I totally would have called the cops, too.
It’s not like you don’t pay taxes…
And now I need to see a photo of you in the dress. Pretty pretty please.
I think you deserve an award for what you did. Stupid, rude, insolent people need to be punished more often. Otherwise, all of Darwin’s hard work just flies out the window.
(Good for you. And happy 2012.)
I do this quite often, and I do think it gets more intense with motherhood. My best example though, is when my parents and my husband and daughter and I were at McDonald’s. A guy was being totally obnoxious to the cashier, and holding up the line. I said something to him because my daughter was hungry. He insulted me, and then suddenly my mother and I were both yelling at him. My husband and my dad took my daughter and slunk away. When the guy finally gave up and left, the cashier thanked us.
I have the perfect new years resolution for you….learn to sew 😉
Oh and years before I had kids and after too, the biggest thing that set me off was kids in bars! Not that I go to bars much after having kids. I remember a particular night where it was after 10pm and my friends and I were out having a good time (meaning after a few bottles of wine) at a bar/restaurant and a woman and her toddler (no more than 2) was running thru the bar. All the while the woman is complaining that the bar is smokey (yes you could still smoke in bars then). So I kept yelling out “take your kid home and put them to bed! OR “GET A BABYSITTER”. Still makes me nuts to see kids out late!
You know I’ve got your back. She straight up STOLE your MONEY! How does somebody like that even manage to stay in business?? Crazy!
OK, my Costco story is not really all that exciting. I mean, cops weren’t involved. Basically I ordered my pizza on the phone, showed up at the appointed time, paid, and the cashier told me “it’s in the oven.” OK. So I step to the side and watch like 400 other people get their pizzas and leave. I ask the girl behind the counter every 5 minutes if mine is ready yet and she keeps telling me “it’s probably coming up next.” This girl really is working her butt off back there, it’s a busy night, so I’m trying to be understanding. But really? Where’s my pizza??
FORTY MINUTES LATER I get her attention and tell her, “Look. This probably isn’t your fault. I don’t want to yell at you. But I am PISSED right now, and I’m going to yell at SOMEBODY, so you need to go back there and find me somebody to yell at. NOW.”
I didn’t even have to yell, really (but I would have, make no mistake). The manager was very apologetic and offered to refund my money. If she hadn’t offered, though, I would have demanded and would have yelled as much as I had to yell because I was not walking out that door without a free pizza.
She gave me free sodas, too, which I hadn’t even ordered.
I agree with whoever said above that motherhood changed them. I used to hate confrontation but something clicked in me during my first pregnancy and never clicked back. Do not screw with me, customer service professionals.
One of my very first blog posts was about this…it was called “Toying With the Mentally Unstable.”
Oh my God. You are my hero! I love it when people get what they deserve (though I think the woman deserved an ass-kicking in addition to the cop visit).
I have had to keep my mouth shut for years so I don’t jeopardize my husband’s military career in any way. Hardest thing ever. Sometimes, it’s absolutely not possible…
We lived in military housing and had a shared wall with some hillbilly, redneck, moronic neighbors. I put up with their shit for a year. The list includes: letting their yap dogs bark constantly all day, every day, smoking right next to my open windows, leaving trash all over their yard, and having loud, coke-snorting parties after hours on weekdays. They SPRAY PAINTED a car inside their garage, which connected to our garage and air ducts. Our house had paint fumes pumped in to it for over a week.
Long story short, I had been documenting this stuff for a year. They decided to have a drunken party, yet again, on a weekday after base housing regulations and woke up my toddler. Bitch Momma was released. We had a yelling match in front of 15 people. I, of course, came out on top of that encounter because I wasn’t plastered. The best part, the idiot neighbors called the cops. I had done nothing wrong, so they had called the cops on THEMSELVES for violation of rules. I got to write my statement and provide all the documentation (including photos and videos) to the police and base housing office. They ended up getting evicted from base housing and the incidents went on the neighbor’s PERMANENT military record. Anybody in the military knows, that shit stays with you forever and will prevent promotions.
Karma? Yes, please.
Holy sh*% I am totally laughing with you on this one. Ruefully. When I lived uptown, I had the drycleaner give me back a pair of pants that was NOT mine. My favorite pair was gone – and you know how it is to find pants. When I said “These are not my pants,” the guy goes “Are you sure?” Of course I’m sure! I responded “These pants are UGLY.” Well, they said they’d pay me back the value of my pants in drycleaning and what could I do? I took it. But towards the end of my “credit” they started to get nasty about it. Very unpleasant. As for losing my temper in a public place, my spot was D’Agostino’s on 19th and 8th (or thereabouts). I had a late-evening-long-day-cold-feet-tired shopping trip where several of my items rang up wrong and both the scanner price AND the shelf price were incorrect (amazing) and then when I tried to get it fixed at customer service, they gave me back the wrong amount. Well…I’m not proud…but I shouted a curse that made the girl look at me like a madwoman. And perhaps I was? You have my sympathies.
I don’t know what made me do it, as I had never done such a thing before. My husband and I were coming out of Wal-Mart and most of the way through the crosswalk when a black car sped within inches of us. Another five inches and he would’ve run over my toes! So I balled up my fist and hit the top of the truck as it passed by. My husband was surprised as was I, but my thought was what would’ve happened if we’d had our five kids with us? That inconsiderate person could’ve hit one of our kids. Then we noticed as we walked to our car that the black car had turned around and was following us. Luckily, there was a patrol car cruising the parking lot in the next lane. I waved at the black car and then pointed out the cop and waved at the cop (who waved back). The black car took off never to be seen again. I don’t know why, but I felt invincible that night!
Just when I thought I couldn’t love you more: Dry Cleaner Smackdown.
Yes, you were totally right! Okay, maybe not the swat outing and f-bombs, as far as I would have preffered for real bitch slapping and MOTHER FUCKERS, but hey, you can’t be perfect.
I have a great story about my own insanity per-wedding. Ima blog about it and get back to you.
This is fantastic. I too had a bizarre dry cleaner “incident.” Went to pick up my husband’s shirts and they flat out said no and that I could not have them. Ever. This was days after they were due to be picked up. They could not offer an explanation why. I argued with them, but did not think to call the cops. I wish you were with me – sounds like you could’ve helped settle this one.
Oh Alyssa I am cataloging that “find me somebody to yell at. NOW” so that I can use it later. I always feel bad being mad at the first line of customer service people bc if I’m calling it usually means something bad and those people rarely ever did something to deserve my “mad”.
This is what I would do, too.
So I kind of hate myself a little.
But I don’t hate you, Diane.
(you’re awesome.)
XO
Okay – first, this was supposed to go under Diane’s comment so now it doesn’t make any sense.
Second – why does my name keep coming up in people’s comments as “Julie sucks at cards, too”?
I did not type that in. Obviously. Even though I do suck at cards.
Should I call the cops?
And with that post..
WILL YOU MARRY ME, ILANA????
Because I have just fallen in love with you. Soooper hard.
Eff yeah gimme back that twenty. Or you’ll see swatting taken to heights never before seen on this planet.
Go Fight Win.
Because I will take that woman down with you. My arms may be scrawny, but I’m scrappy.
And may I passionately suggest an Insane Moments link up?
I’ll host with ya.
But not at my site…I’m too cloggy and my blogger blog would break down.
xo
OMG. I loved this. I am pretty sure I would not have been able to call the cops, but I bet I would have been in there long enough for her to call them on me. So very smart move on you initiating the call, looks better for you 🙂
Awesome story. I have never lost my cool quite to that level, but I sure wish I could have been a mouse in the corner watching this unwind. Please tell me that you have another cleaner in town?
HOLY SCHNIKIES! This story is amazing. I’m so right there with you. In fact I wish I actually WAS right there with you, because I would have held her down so you could get your $20 back and then punch her in the crotch. And then I would have fixed your dress for you FO FREE and help you start a first class smear campaign to shut her shitty dry cleaning biz down for good. Whatever happened to customer service?! You poor thing. Ooooh, I’m steamin’ mad for you!
I think I’m just mostly amazed that your dry cleaner speaks English.
(Swatting?? Ha.)
You are completely justified!! I would have called the cops after she took my 20 and did not give me my change. I am very good at confronting young punks who think they are cool by swearing around my kids. (although my oldest entered teenager hood last month and I am sure some woman will be yelling at him-justifiably-soon enough) I told one bratty, pseudo slutty teen age girl that she could not sit in front of me at a ball game while talking the way she was talking or showing off her boobs in front of my kids. She was all about the huge hickey on her neck and how awesome it was. She did get up I move though, while loudly calling me a bitch.
I did have several other parents inthe stand thank me for saying something.
I have also asked teen boys to watch their language with kids around and they almost always apologize and say they hadn’t realized there were kids there and then engage my kids in chatter.
I have wanted to get into it with several adults, but usually while I am at work and am “representing the company” so can’t say what I am thinking
You rock, and were RIGHT.
Joycelyn
I think I love you for this. Seriously.
this is by far the funniest & best thing i have read in a long time. you are awesome.
I’m normally the “get mad, but slink away quietly and complain bitterly to my husband for an unreasonable amount of time” type of person… but this one time…
My local pharmacy had messed something of mine up, so they gave me a stack of coupons for free film developing… I’d used a few of the coupons and then went back into get a few rolls of film developed. The girl behind the counter read the coupon wrong and told me I couldn’t use it… so we went back and forth and I got louder and uglier over it. It was plain English and the stupid register girl wouldn’t listen to me that she was reading it wrong… BESIDES the fact that I had used the coupon at the same pharmacy on the same film before! We sat there and argued for probably 15 minutes before she finally got the manager and the manager took the coupon. But the girl would NEVER admit that I was right and it STILL makes me mad… I’m getting mad just thinking about it and this was…no lie, probably 12 years ago!!! Looking back, arguing with a minimum wage worker over a stupid coupon was silly,but at the time, it made perfect sense. 🙂
I have to say I love your story and I continually find myself in the position where I have to tell people off for the sake of principle and as a matter of fact I may or may not have gotten 2 Macy’s employees fired yesterday……
2009.
My grandfather was dying.
I had my barely six year old niece, who, through no fault of her own, was drastically obese and looked eight. Also, my own not-quite-six-year-old daughter and a four-year-old friend.
We got to the jumpy zone (it was Pump It Up) if you care, only to find out my niece was a month too old to jump. (A rule that would N-E-V-E-R have been enforced if she hadn’t looked two years OLDER). Instead of just telling me to come back in two hours when all ages can jump, the bitch at the counter goes all bossy hardass.
I lose it.
She threatens to call the cops while I’m sitting sobbing in the floor with three tearful girls. A random asshole comes in and offers to punch me. I resist the urge to kick him in the nuts or goad him into doing it so I can sue him for assault and leave.(And I was so crazy and heartbroken and angry that for one blazing instant, I knew exactly what I would have had to say about his wife to get him to do it and I wanted to.)
On the way home, I spend a hundred fifty bucks to rent a bounce house, and I now badmouth that particular establishment (Montgomery, AL, Pump It Up. There is Only One. Please, Monkey Joe, Where Are You).
That is a very good point. My belief is that in Manhattan, since we are a city of pedestrians- a lot of the negative energy that usually gets released in cars, gets released on the street. So yeah- if someone shoves past me on the sidewalk, he will probably hear about it.
I have been in fights with the dry cleaning lady on more then one occasion. I HAD a fabulous sheer and beaded top that I wore only once and dropped of at my usual cleaners. When I picked it up not only we half the beads stripped of their luster but the fabric was a puckered. Not only did they not refund my money for they shirt (I still had the recpt in my wallet that’s how new it was) they tried to make me pay for it. The lady said she couldn’t see the difference.
Luckily the 15+ people in the cleaners all agreed with me.
I may or may not have gone behind the desk and threatened to call crime stoppers.
My husband now handles the dry cleaners.
Yes, on the plus side- I had an awesome story to tell at my New Year’s Eve Party as opposed to sulking in my shoddy looking all night.
Seriously? After all that, she chose to FIX THE DRESS?!?!
She’s the raging, crazy bitch in this case. Although I can totally see how you came off as one. 😉
Good for you! We have to stand up for ourselves and some situations call for us to be bolder then normal. I know I do. I’m stumped that you only received $5 back, where the remaining $8? She certainly didn’t deserve a tip and I don’t believe she deserved any payment.
Just look at 2012 having been started a bit early on a strong won’t be taken for granted foot.
Love your blog!
Revenge is sweet. Post a sign in your elevator warning everyone about the lunatic cleaners.
I love Mommyshorts and I love my dry cleaner so this lady must really suck.
That is truly unbelievable! Honestly. I’ve never heard of such a thing. I probably would have been cowed and left in a huff … then of course written about it on my blog. But YOU have a much better story. 😉
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All I want to say is that I love this story. It made my morning to read this.
This made my morning as well! I cannot wait to share this with my husband so he knows I am not the only one that is unable to let these injustices go! I would have contacted the BBB if not the police so at least it reflects bad on the business and warns future customers.
I have been following you for a few years, but missed this story. I have seen your blog “blow up” and watched you and your children grow and offer great ideas for busy moms. I love your house by the way and admire you for fitting two girls and a husband in a NYC apartment.
But this story? This story made you real! I love it! We’ve all been there. The principle, the not letting go, the inappropriate use of “fuck”. And in your case, the swatting. I laughed out loud.
Thanks for another great post!