Thank you to everyone who expressed concern yesterday! We are fine. We have no power, water, wireless or heat but also thankfully, NO BABY. We are currently staying with friends on the Upper West Side, where everything appears to be functioning pretty much as normal.
That's Mazzy on Sunday, a few hours before Hurricane Sandy hit, trying on her costume in anticipation of Halloween. She's Olivia for those of you who don't read really awesome children's books. Well, the original is awesome. The follow-ups are questionable and the TV show is downright ANNOYING.
Anyway, as most of you probably know, Halloween in Manhattan was not meant to be this year, as people are too busy rationing water to worry about things like how many Fun Size Kit-Kats they can stuff in their mouths at once. (I'm guessing four.)
So this post is probably the only opportunity I have to show off her costume…
Red dress bought at Old Navy for $14, dry cleaner sewed on the white sailor collar for $15, black felt stars and black bow attached myself, ridiculously oversized ears bought on Etsy, leggings found in Mazzy's dresser drawer, and VOILA! Olivia costume.
But this isn't about the tragedy of a lost Halloween, it's about how Monday night was probably one of the most panic-filled of my life.
I am not one to blow things out of proportion (and believe me, I am well aware many people fared way worse than I did during the storm), but there is something about being 38 weeks pregnant during a natural disaster that made my brain jump straight from hurricane to "end of the world".
In the days proceeding Hurricane Sandy, I thought a power outage would be a huge inconvenience, a tough thing to tackle with a toddler, and a serious BITCH to deal with if I went into labor, but I did not think about what it would feel like to be totally cut-off from the outside world with no TV or internet access.
At around 8pm Monday night, our lights went out, taking our wireless with it, and from that point on, we had pretty much no idea what was going on. At some point, Mike brought out a "hot spot" with very little juice left, which I used to go on Gothamist and see a picture of 9th Street and Avenue C completely overtaken by water. I cannot stress how close that is to my apartment.
Then I checked Mayor Bloomberg's twitter feed and he said something like, "There are 10,000 911 calls being fielded every half hour and there is no way for us to answer all of them".
That's when the hotspot died and I went into serious DOOMSDAY MODE.
First I thought about who I would call that could potentially talk Mike through birthing our child. And then I wondered about people who give birth at home or in cars or similar situations and all I could think about was— what the hell happens to the umbilical cord??? Does somebody cut it? Or does the child remain attached to it until they can get medical assistance?? Either scenario seemed totally repulsive.
When I wasn't thinking about the possibility of giving birth on my kitchen floor, I was imagining the water rising so high that it totally covered Manhattan, eventually causing our building to collapse into the sea.
Inbetween emergency labor and scenes from Deep Impact, I was thinking things like—"we don't have nearly enough water to last us more than a day or two", "Mazzy is going to LOSE HER SHIT once the milk spoils" and "WHY DIDN'T I SHOWER WHEN WE STILL HAD RUNNING WATER????"
Oh, apparently when you live in a building over a certain height, your water is controlled by an electronic pump. Learn something new everyday!
Speaking of height, we live on the 12th floor in an area where there are few high rise buildings. Meaning we have excellent views of Manhattan. Which is awesome on a regular day but during a black out, it is downright CREEPY. Here was our view of downtown Manhattan as of 9pm Monday night. That tall building is One World Trade, which went out about an hour later.
Also, our building is L-shaped which gives us exposure on three sides. This means the wind wraps around us and creates a howling noise even on a normal day. Add hurricane winds moving at 90mph and the sound is downright TERRIFYING. Plus, the building was creaking in ways I have never heard it creak before, interrupted only by passing ambulence sirens, and the chandelier over the dining room table was shaking continuously.
My soundly sleeping husband certainly wasn't helping matters. I believe I even yelled at him to wake up and console me or else WHAT WAS THE POINT OF HIM NOT GOING TO SAN FRANCISCO???
Truth be told, if Mike hadn't been there, Mazzy and I would currently be hugging each other for dear life inside my closet, instead of where we are now— safely nestled at a friend's house on the Upper West Side.
Tuesday morning, we woke up to the lovely vocal stylings of our daughter demanding to watch television.
As feared, Mazzy did not take the lack of technology in stride. She wanted Netflix and iPad access and warm milk and hall lights left on and there is only so many times you can tell a toddler that things are JUST NOT WORKING. (Although, it was kind of funny when I gave Mazzy a handful of chips and she responded with, "Chips are WORKING?!")
At some point, Mike magically produced an emergency radio (where the hell had that thing been the night before??) and we listened to Mayor Bloomberg tell us just how bad things were.
We also found out power existed above 38th Street.
So we called our friends on the Upper West Side from our land line (have I mentioned that AT&T on our cell phones wasn't working either?) and arranged to shift our brood uptown.
Once there, we showered, ate a homecooked meal and finally watched footage of the disaster on television. We found out power probably won't be restored for four more days, meaning no electricity, heat or water until at least Friday. We also were able to call family and friends and make sure everyone is okay. Unfortunately, we are still waiting on a couple of responses.
As for Mazzy, she was more than thrilled to be reintroduced to a microwave and cable, and spent the evening playing computer games and watching Toy Story 2 with three-year-old, Charlie.
She really knows how to make herself at home, doesn't she?
I hope everybody reading on the East Coast is somewhere safe and that any damage was minimal. I am thinking about all of you today!
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Still hoping that people will post pictures of their kid's Halloween costumes on the Mommy Shorts Facebook Fanpage. I'll be doing out costume awards on Friday.
So glad you guys are all OK, and it’s great that you managed to get somewhere else to stay so quickly. Now keep those legs crossed!
I’m glad you’re OK! And still pregnant! (Never thought I’d say THAT to a woman who is 38 weeks pregnant.) Our natural disasters are mostly of the firestorm variety (with the ever present possibility of an earthquake, of course) and I can’t tell you how paranoid I manage to get myself about fires. Even though I live in a relatively low risk area. In fact, last firestorm, we were the ones taking evacuated friends in. But still.
Anyway, Mazzy is an adorable Olivia, and I hope she gets to wear it and trick or treat a little bit tomorrow. Maybe just in the building you’re staying in? I know I’d find trick or treating kids a welcome distraction in that situation.
Glad to know you guys are okay and the baby decided to stay put!
So devastating, I’ve been following this from my side of the world and realized how many people I know (through blogging!) who live in the path of Sandy. So far, have heard that everyone I know is safe. Glad glad glad.
(also, Mazzy looks so much like you in the last picture!)
Wow, I can’t imagine what a puddle of hysterical mush I would be if I had to go through all that. You ROCK, and I’m glad you’re all warm, safe, & dry ~ except your lil bean, of course, who isn’t supposed to be dry just yet. Anyway ~ hope you get to go home soon ~
Hugs! Glad the babe stayed put, that was my big worry for you! Hope you are home soon.
Jww
Glad to hear you guys are alright and that baby did not introduce itself to the world that night.
So happy to hear you’re all okay! I can’t imagine how much anxiety I’d have. I worried enough while preggo with no weather. Love Mazzy’s quip about the chips. I’ll still be praying for you guys that you can go home soon.
So glad you are okay – that sounds terrifying, and that picture of a blacked-out Manhattan is downright doomsday-ish. Looking forward to word that you are home and of your baby’s arrival! xoxo
Thinking about you guys. So glad you are okay. xoxoxo
Glad you are okay! We’re along the Southern Outer Banks in NC and are hurricane pros and we can’t imagine how bad things are up there. We feel like we dodged a bullet with Sandy, only minor damages here. I feel you on the sleeping husband and terrifying winds, it happens every time (you think I’d be less annoyed after 7 years, but no). I hope things settle down and have some normal to them before baby arrives.
So glad to hear you guys are okay. We are still waiting to hear from friends that evacuated Atlantic Beach and were staying with family in Woodmere. Living in Florida you get used to dealing with hurricanes, but this is just too unbelievable. Everyone here in Boca knows someone who is affected and the stories just keep coming in. Stay safe and take care!!!
Praying for you and your family (and for you to have a safe delivery)!
Glad everyone is safe and Mazzy’s costume is adorable!
Wow – glad to hear all is ok! How freaking scary!
When we moved back from Switzerland, our toddler was happy to be reunited with the microwave as well!
As for the landline… being a telecom engineer, I’m a big believer in keeping your landline for many, many reasons, especially during disasters!
So glad you all are safe and sound. I know my brain would go the same place yours did…total panic. I hear you! I am so glad you didn’t go into labor and that your baby is still tucked safely inside. Happy Halloween!
So glad you are ok! If I were 38 weeks pregnant, I’d have the same thoughts as you! I love Mazzy’s costume. I saw one at the store and thought of her. Your homemade one is much better AND you can use that dress again. I can’t believe you won’t electricity or water til Friday! I have no idea what I’d do. Thankful for close friends! LOL – chips working!
Was thinking of you Monday while we got hammered by the southern end of Sandy. So.Much.Wind. So.Much.RAIN! Fortunately, we never lost power, thanks to the modern miracle of underground power lines. But Monday night was unnerving, to say the least.
Lil’ Bit will likely only get to wear her Piglet costume today at school as well. They cancelled their Halloween parade through town this morning and trick-or-treating is looking iffy since IT WON’T STOP RAINING!!! (Seriously, this thing is just sitting over us wringing itself out.) Plus, it’s cold as balls, with snow measuring in the feet only an hour or so west of us. This Halloween blows.
I also meant to tell you that I’m glad Mike didn’t go out of town. I went into labor at 38 weeks and 2 days on the night of a full moon. No hurricane, but still…
Glad y’all are safe!
Glad you’re ok. Our family in Mass seems to have weathered it well too. Haven’t heard from friends in PA.
Glad you’re all ok! Love that you made mazzy’s outfit! Adorable!
So, so happy to hear you all are ok!
Thank you for that amazing insider’s perspective on the Hurricane and the photojournalism, as always. Stay safe and good luck in the days ahead. Just think, your baby will have a great story to tell one day.
Did I tell you my right shoulder is still frozen over worry for you?
I kept thinking “she’s 38 wks, last i heard was MIKE CAN’T CLOSE COMMUNITY ROOM DOOR!
and then it all went black.
Yeah, kinda have fallen in love with my East Coast people.
You were missing at roll call Tuesday morning, that’s when the shoulder tendons really flipped to high gear.
So happy you are fine. Really.
xo
So glad you are all OK! Hope you hear from your loved ones soon. Was worried about you being close to your EDD, then worried about every other mom-to-be in this situation – hope all of you and your chicklets-to-be arrive at next week unscathed!! And now is also a good time to be thankful human gestation period is 40 not 38 weeks, Amen. P.S. Push out baby, catch baby, cut the cord, cry from joy and relief. You and Mike would have rocked it – but glad you didn’t have to try!!
I was thinking of you so much until I read this post. You are the only person I “know” in New York, although I have tons of friends and family in PA where I used to live. I am glad you guys are all ok. Stay safe, and I hope Miss Mazzy gets some trick or treating in. 🙂
I had a similar, though not nearly as terrifying, experience a couple years ago. The next day I promptly went online and bought crank-up flashlights, solar powered radio, some water purifier thingy, solar cell phone charger… I think that I spent around $400 on stuff that now lives in a plastic tub in my house. I’m not prepared for everything in a natural disaster but I do like having that box around. Of all the crap that I spend money on, seemed like a reasonable idea to splurge on that stuff.
Very glad that you and your family are okay!
I know this post is from yesterday, but I want to also reiterate what others have said – I’m glad you are OK! We live in South Jersey, but inland – we’re only 30 minutes or so outside of Philly. We really lucked out in our little area (and we are so very, very grateful) but are still reeling from seeing so much damage to the Shore, especially Atlantic City. Also, I’m originally from Austin, Texas, and lived there during Katrina. I’ll never forget that – our city being suddenly full of evacuees, and everything that happened then. This weekend I was like, hey! I moved away from Hurricane Central, I thought I was done with this stuff! At any rate, I’m glad to know you guys are OK.
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