Once upon a time, Mazzy wore whatever I wanted. I put her in little dresses with adorable cardigans and matching socks and all was right with the world.
Now, there is not a clothing decision that is made in which Mazzy does not take part. Just as she is opinionated about which books I read at bedtime and what brand of string cheese she eats, she cares just as much about what clothing (if any) makes its way onto her body.
From underwear selection to hair ribbon color (NO! I WANT A HEADBAND!!!!!), Mazzy chooses EVERYTHING. It's either that or we get dressed for several hours and probably miss school.
Personally, I'd rather save my battles for something else.
So, when Mazzy insists that every pair of pants she wears must be a pink pair of leggings and there is no way she is entertaining any kind of top besides her Super Soccer Stars t-shirt that is three sizes too large, that is what she wears. And it is up to us to make sure those pieces of clothing are washed and folded in her drawer or else you must be prepared to explain their absence the next day.
When she does steer away from the Super Soccer Stars t-shirt, Mazzy will stick within her comfort zone.
What's her comfort zone?
THE COLOR PINK.
Mazzy's goal is usually to wear as many pink items as possible. It makes no sense to her why you would wear a pink shirt with a different color pants— clearly THEY DO NOT GO TOGETHER IF THEY ARE BOTH NOT PINK (double negative, I know).
So, most days she is wearing a pink pair of leggings, a pink shirt, pink socks, pink sneakers, and a pink bow. Sometimes she'll even throw a pink skirt on top of the leggings for good measure. Add her pink hat and puffy pink jacket and the outfit is complete.
VALUABLE LESSON: If you suspect your child will wear nothing but pink, do not buy him/her a pink coat. A pink coat on top of an all pink outfit (shoes included) makes your child look like a bottle of Peptobismol covered in cotton candy sitting in a glass of strawberry Quik. It is an ASSAULT ON THE SENSES.
Also, if you think all this pink means my child is AT THE VERY LEAST matching, you would be grossly underestimating the number of variations and shades of PINK. There is also the off chance PURPLE will work its way into the mix and nothing clashes more than a purple cardigan, bright pink leggings, a pale pink skirt, lavender socks and dark magenta shoes.
Case in point:
I once read Madonna wears the same blue track suit all the time because that renders the pictures snapped by the paparazzi worthless. Even US Weekly doesn't want twenty pictures of Madonna in the same outfit so the photographers leave her alone.
That's how I feel about Mazzy's pink on pink on pink on pink attire. It is no longer instagrammable.
So, now that's its spring and we will finally shed the puffy pink jacket for good, it is time to buy Mazzy some new clothes. Am I going to make the same mistake of buying a bunch of clothes I like that Mazzy won't wear?
NOPE.
I made Mazzy go online shopping with me— which I must say, she greatly enjoyed. We sat at the computer, looked at different online clothing sites and she picked stuff out.
She even picked some NON-PINK stuff out!
I have no idea what her criteria was for her selections, just gut reactions, I guess, but it was fun to hear her commentary. "That's too fancy." "That yellow dress is beautiful." "I don't need another sweater." "Oooooh!!!! A skirt with bicycles!" And so on.
Because I'm not going to buy everything she wanted and because I also need to make sure there are some things that match, I saved all her picks in a "Clothes for M" list on Sweet Relish. You relish shopping items just like you pin pictures on Pinterest— buy using a "relish" button directly on your browser. Then each item on your shopping list links to where you can purchase and will even tell you if it goes on sale.
Now, I have one big shopping cart of Mazzy-approved items from multiple stores and I will go back tonight to decide which items I will buy, what items I still need and make it all fit within my budget.
Then hopefully, in a few short days, Mazzy will have clothes besides pink leggings that she wants to wear in public.
If I was smart, I would make sure every item mixed and matched.
Maybe that's a task for summer.
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Ha ha… they may be Mazzy approved but it doesn’t mean she will actually wear them when they arrive at your house. Take it from me… been there, done that. Needless to say my 8 year old daughter only has yoga pants (uniform Gap yoga pants with pockets, to be specific, because no other will do) and puppy or sports shirts. She has other cute stuff that she picked out and swore that she would wear. They were worn once and stuck at the back of her closet. Hopefully you will have better luck!
That skirt is amazing. I’m gonna give her fashion props for that.
Mazzy stories are my favorite. She.is.Awesome! (I was also crazy picky about my clothes when I was little, so I can relate – or my mom can relate)
We got through the same thing every day at our house except the outfit must include a shirt, pants, a skirt AND a dress! At least we sometimes get away from the pink/purple combo but not very often. I think it’s part of being 3!
Well, I wrote a very long, detailed response, but it got eaten. So, all I’ll say is that my kids have inherited my fashion sense, and this is not a good thing. Still, I let them dress themselves, because I figure, it’s their way of expressing themselves that doesn’t include putting holes in their body or permanently putting artwork on their skin.
Ok so Miss Mazzy reminds me SO much of my oldest Adisen (she is 5 almost 6). Every morning is a battle as to what she will wear. We pick out her clothes for school the night before and most of the time she changes her mind by the morning! It must have her stamp of approval before she will wear it and it’s heartbreaking as a mother who loves to pick out and shop for her clothes! I feel for you!
There were times that my 4yo (now 18) on went to school with a note in his tote for the teacher that said “Dear Ms B. He dressed himself.” Little boy’s fashion choices can make your head and eyes hurt sometimes but their logic for making those choices can also brighten your day – and I figured that I had more important battles to fight and it gave him control over things as well. Besides, I now have the photos of him in those outfits safely tucked away for when he has sons of his own.
I love the skirt! And I love the striped leggings. I tend to buy my kiddo striped leggings a lot, have since she was little, because I could never ever wear them and they go well with all of the colors on them.
But yes – I was SHOUTING yes to you – Pink and Pink have to match in their eyes. When in ours we’re like NO! It’s not right! You’re a peep! Stop it! Ah, well. They’ll get there eventually!
I personally love the skirt with the bikes on it.
I love this post as much as I love seeing my 3 year old dressed in outfits that I could not wear unless I wanted to be carted off to an insane asylum! I really do love not only the outfit Mazzy is wearing above (the purple top/flourescent tights attire), but I also love that she loves it, and love that she can wear that and still look way more fashionable that I do, and really dislike the age when kids start to dress drab and no longer feel they can wear clothes that clash and look so wrong – yet look so right (on them).
I guess to me, I sort of see it in reverse – they have preferences and act like they care but really? They don’t. As in they don’t care what other people think of what they are wearing. They only care what THEY think. And of that I am truly jealous and also sad for the day when my daughters start dressing for others rather than only for their own pleasure.
So right now our only rules are: Seasonally appropriate. One of her “best” dresses is saved for “best” occasions (the other ones – why not dress up for the everyday – all the areas I would garner pity looks if I went wearing a ball gown yet she gets only genuine smiles and praise …) And no “hoochy-mama”. Not that we buy hoochy-mama but some outfits can convert to the like, if you, for example, wear a short shirt with leggings and no skirt 😉
My son has his own sense of fashion. Today he sported Kelly green skinny Jeans, a black tee with a green skinny tie and a black newsboy hat. He’s 5, all the other little boys wear Spongebob and angry birds tees with blue Jeans or basketball shorts. He always stands out in his bright clothes! He only has 1 pair of regular blue Jeans, everything else is bright red, green, cobalt, rust brown or black. If it were up to him he’d wear a tie everyday with a tee and a blazer or his jacket that looks like a varsity. He says he wants to dress like Beaver from Leave it to Beaver!
even I want that skirt!
My 4 year old, Eva, is the exact same way….but somehow her clothes are (mostly) adorable. Or, maybe, it’s the fact that she’s super confident in them that makes the difference. ‘Cause, don’t you know, Mom, that I NEEEEED a sparkly bubble-gum-pink princess skirt with my safety-yellow panda with-pink-glasses shirt to match my magenta pink-with-blue-snowflakes leggings and my pink cowboy boots so that I can go fishing and MAYBE find a frog that MIGHT be my prince…not that I would kiss him, I only kiss the fish that I catch. Hey, can I have a drink?
I love this. My six year old still does this (sorry if that dashes any hopes of a short-lived phase!). While she usually prefers to wear head to toe pink or purple, sometimes she’ll switch it up and go all blue. And she absolutely DETESTS white. It is far too boring for such a fancy creature.
As much as it drives me insane sometimes, I’m glad to be raising a strong, opinionated girl. She’s no delicate flower. No one will push her around. Including me.
I can’t even begin to tell you how timely this post is! Yesterday I took my 3.5 yo shopping for her Spring/Summer clothes at H&M because I have had it with spending money on clothes she refuses to wear because they’re either not a dress or not red or not horribly clashing and seasonably inappropriate. And guess what, she had a ball, was a fun shopping partner and picked out pretty much the same stuff I would have picked out for her. Go figure…
LOL. Sounds like my Littlest. She is obsessed with wearing dresses and skirts. To the extreme that she will put on a strapless sundress over a ruffled long sleeve t-shirt to make it weather appropriate.
And it never matches.
I choose to fight other battles.
Right? It’s like a little European vintage inspired circle skirt from the ’50s, but updated with those fun neon bikes.
I should add, it is fun to shop with them, but can also backfire. Like the time we were in the dance store buying something for her older sister, and I saw a REALLY cute princess tutu outfit on sale for $15; she says “no thank you!”. No problem.
Until she wandered on, found a skimpy shirt on a rack and declared “I want THIS one!!!” which was not only (as mentioned) skimpy – but also $55 worth of skimp.
Uh-huh. Three year old got a quick lessons on “sales” and “value of money”; thank you teachable money-moment! 😉
I should add, it is fun to shop with them, but can also backfire. Like the time we were in the dance store buying something for her older sister, and I saw a REALLY cute princess tutu outfit on sale for $15; she says “no thank you!”. No problem.
Until she wandered on, found a skimpy shirt on a rack and declared “I want THIS one!!!” which was not only (as mentioned) skimpy – but also $55 worth of skimp.
Uh-huh. Three year old got a quick lessons on “sales” and “value of money”; thank you teachable money-moment! 😉
Ha, ha, ha… I’m 42 and to this day, my mum keeps saying my sister and I never looked better than when she would pick our clothes.
I’ve always found it pleasantly surprising how Mazzy would wear beautiful dresses and matching clothes when the mommy bloggers seem to be competing over whose daughter will wear more mismatched items of clothing.
My granddaughter who will b 3 also only wears pink, purple, lavendar, and tutus!
My soon to be 11 yr old just changed her room to a tween colored apple green. Pink has left the building. Sorta. But not looking a pepto bismol walls every morning – it is a good thing.
Well, we have uniforms for school, but the princess chooses her clothes on the weekends (She’s 7). I let her wear whatever she wants. I figure, this is the only time you can do it! My only rule is that mommy gets to say no to stuff if we are going somewhere nice. Other than that, Blue shirt, purple skirt with butterflies and a pink headband? Rock it, girl!
“Contrasting” (read “conflicting”) shades of green are equally pleasing to the eye. Lime socks, emerald trousers, apple shirt – looking good….. Boys are just the same. Girlie is following Mazzy with the pinks. Not a battle we choose either!
It used to be all my son wore was Captain America stuff from shirt to socks to underwear. Of course, non of the hand-me-downs had Cap on them so I spent a small fortune on t-shirts, socks, underpants, etc. The other day I bought the coolest (and most expensive) Captain America shirt and my son rejected it b/c the shield was on the front and not the back. The shield placement made him cry.
I think pink and purple look great together :). Happy shopping with Mazzy!
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