If you've been away from your computer for the past few days, you might not have noticed my Epic Baby Hair Contest blowing up over the weekend.
Not only did people catch on to the contest when it was already over (it was featured on the Daily Mail, MSN Now, Yahoo, Buzzfeed and my favorite *nerd alert!*, as a question on NPR's "Wait Wait Don't Tell Me"), but the whole wig debate was reopened. Sheesh!
This was especially annoying for the winner's mom, who thought the issue was resolved after she provided proof of her daughter's "hairthenticity" over two weeks ago.
Annette's mom (aka Layla's mom) (aka a woman named Sohaila) emailed me after the story spread to MSN.com on Saturday. In addition to featuring several contestants from the contest, MSN deemed Annette's photo "a scandal" and asked people once again to debate the wig accusations in the comments.
I don't know if you know this, but commenters on big news-type sites are DERANGED. I suspect they are all forty-year-old men still living in their mothers' basements who only come out to replenish their Doritos and welcome their Magic the Gathering friends in the front door. Reading the comments under something like the MSN article is like eavesdropping on a bunch of internet trolls at a party.
Once on HuffPo, someone commented that Mazzy was psychotic and I should be in jail and then I pretty much ignored commenters besides my own after that.
But to the uninitiated, it can be a bit brutal.
Unfortunately, the comments on MSN overwhelmingly believed Layla was wearing a wig, that her mom was a cheat and they should both have the title stripped.
EPIC BABY HAIR GATE 2013!
Sohaila was rightfully displeased at the extra coverage, so I did the only thing I could to help her out— offer the woman who won my Epic Baby Hair contest fair and square an interview to tell her side.
Sohaila, who is from Morroco but currently lives in England, took a little bit of time to answer some questions and clear her name once and for all.
ME: How did you find out about the contest?
ANNETTE'S MOM: My sister saw an article in the Daily Mail and sent me the link because she thinks Layla's hair is crazy.
ME: How did you feel when people started saying Layla was wearing a wig?
AM: I completely forgot I entered the contest until you messaged me on Instagram asking me if my daughter's hair was real. I had no idea what was going on over on the Facebook page. I thought the Goldfish was really cute, so I wouldn't have been a sore loser. I was only upset because people were saying they wouldn't vote for Layla because they didn't believe her hair was real. But once everyone believed it, I thought the whole thing was funny. It's pretty ridiculous people would think I'd put a wig on my baby just to win an epic baby hair contest!
ME: After all the controversy, did you ever think she'd end up winning?
AM: When she made it to the final, there was a lot of good competition. I thought the Lollipop Guild would win because he was really funny. So it was a big surprise when I found out Layla won.
ME: How did you feel about the coverage after the contest was over?
AM: The Daily Mail article was very exaggerated on my behalf. They made me out to be really angry when I wasn't. Then it was frustrating to have the wig question come up again. Some comments were hurtful calling me a bad mother because I cared about myself and put my baby in a wig. Seriously?!
ME: What's the most outrageous comment someone has made about the contest?
AM: The winner didn't deserve to win because she's a fraud.
ME: Ok. So explain to everyone what exactly is happening with Layla's hair in the picture. Did you brush out the curls? Tease it in any way?
AM: Previously that day, her hair had been tied up. But she pulled it out so I brushed it back so I could tie it up again. And thats what it looked like. Her hair texture is usually tight curls but that's what happens when I brush it out and back. Her hair needs no teasing!
ME: Did you have hair similar to your daughter when you were younger?
AM: I had a more tamed version and so did my husband, so I think when our genes were put together BAM epic baby hair was made!
ME: How much of a pain is it to wash and brush? Have you ever had any epic hair brushing battles?
AM: I have to wash it everyday without doubt because she gets really sweaty. I use adult hair conditioner on her so its manageable. If she's tired or cranky, I do have to chase her with a hair brush in my hand.
ME: If you had to do it all over again, would you still enter your daughter in the contest?
AM: Yes, but with proof right from the beginning!
ME: If you could make one final comment to anyone accusing you of putting a wig on Layla, what would it be?
AM: Shut up already!
Hear that? Let's put this "coif kerfuffle" to bed.
Oh, goodness, poor Layla and her mom! My oldest daughter has tight spiral curls, and people used to ask me if I used a curling iron on it! Like any mom would waste the time and effort (not to mention heat damage) on a one year old! People can be pretty ridiculous. I bet Layla’s hair is a TON of work, but it is just adorable.
I adore Layla and her hair! 🙂 So glad they won. Sorry for all the jealous haters. I have really curly hair and my girl has that plus an afro so if you’re looking for a great hair product, check out Kinky-Curly Curling Custard: it’s awesome.
Oh my gosh, look at that head of hair in the “current” photo! Sorry Layla and her mom were receiving such backlash from this contest. Ppl (commenters) need lives, sheesh! Congrats on a well deserved win b/c the hair is truly epic!
I think this whole controversy is redic! I mean seriously people grow up!!! Layla is adorbs. My daughter has long hair almost mid back at 9 months as is constantly thought to be older because of it. Her hair is slightly curly but no where as near as curly as Layla’s. all that matters is that she has a loving family and that she is happy. Who cares beyond that really needs to examine….why would someone cheat on a contest like this? I can see for a million dollars but bragging right…seriously people!!! Be strong mamas. The stupid people are everywhere lol!
awww man poor Layla and Mom, people can be really assholes and jerks! I can believe they get so worked up for a cute baby contest! LOSERS get a life! You have all my support, don’t let idiots get under your skin. Your daughter is BEAUTIFUL! and he epic hair deserves to win!
For the record, I think the 3-day old picture is awesome!
Being three days old with THAT much hair, no doubt she has some epic baby hair 14 months later. Jeez.
My mom’s side has crazy curls like Layla so I never thought about it being a wig. But like I’ve been saying.. if people are questions whether or not it’s wig, Layla wins the title of epic baby hair fair and square.
Layla’s mommy – for what it’s worth, for a head full of epic baby hair, she sure knows how to rock it.
They’re all just jealous of her beautiful full head of hair! (I know I am!) She’s a gorgeous little babe and those MSN newscasters (etc) should be ashamed of themselves for picking on a baby! Ridiculous.
It’s awful how driven people are to attack others when the opportunity presents itself. Everyone will always have something to say, and the majority do not pick their words with kindness. Fortunately, your life doesn’t revolve around pettiness or negativity – it’s enriched with love, laughter, kindness, and a lot of wild hair! Extend your heart to all those who are possessed with jealousy and hatred, optimism and love do not come easily to them. Mother Teresa’s quote is one that I recite nearly every time I’m faced with such people:
“People are often unreasonable and self-centered. Forgive them anyway.
If you are kind, people may accuse you of ulterior motives. Be kind anyway.
If you are honest, people may cheat you. Be honest anyway.
If you find happiness, people may be jealous. Be happy anyway.
The good you do today may be forgotten tomorrow. Do good anyway.
Give the world the best you have and it may never be enough. Give your best anyway.
For you see, in the end, it is between you and God. It was never between you and them anyway.”
What I want to know is where would your even get a baby wig?! I bet it would cost a small fortune too! These people are all just jealous! Their hairy its probably thinning and falling out! She had awsome hair!
she is the cutest baby!
First, Layla’s 2 YO pic looks like a Hobbit…BEYOND CUTE!!! Second, her Mom’s comment about the genes getting together and BAM, Epic Baby hair, just had me Rollin on the floor! I’m so glad you could keep a sense of humor about this. Really, WHO ON EARTH would put a wig on their child for a contest? I mean, aside form those Moms on Toddlers and Tiara? THOSE families are a world of whack.
This may need its own entry on Snopes
May I just say, having had rail straight hair my entire life, I only WISH my hair could curl like that! And as to other sites comments, I agree. 40+ year old male trolls living with disturbed mothers on those major sites. It is horrific some of the stuff put out there. Love your site! And love Layla and all the contestants of epic baby hair!
That baby is freaking ADORBS! Glad she won it! Haters exist all over the place…
Fully LOVE Sohaila and wee Layla’s hair! Truly EPIC people win truly EPIC competitions and this has been EPIC!!!! Have I said EPIC enough….I think not! I poo poo people who say shite because sometimes jealousy and plain ignorance should have their mouths sewn shut (or these days their hands sewn into silk mittens and these sewn to their socks!). You rock the internet Ilana and this makes life fun and funny and to be honest I also learn a lot from you and my fellow followers! love xox
Oh the Trollapalooza … for the love of all things that are good and holy in the world … I don’t remember the last time that I had that much pent up emotion / anger / focused rage toward something. But, hey, I suppose if I’m going to really get down to brass tacks and whale on somebody for the great injustices in the world, I would totally pick a baby with Epic Hair–and her Mama, of course. That seems totally rational.
Not.
It’s crazy what some people can come up with, like putting a wig on a baby for a contest. One woman asked me if I dyed my infant daughter’s hair because it was sooo blonde and I’m a brunette. People can be crazy, just don’t listen to them.
Even if it was a wig … the picture is hilarious. And the “reward” was some hair clips. Not a million dollars … not a university scholarship … not a new house or new car … not money otherwise earmarked for charity. But hairclips. Not to knock what the prize was – the company that created the hair clips is wonderful, and the hair clips are super-cute. But I mean, even if someone did actually “cheat” to win some hair clips (which this mom did not – I am just saying even if someone had), I am pretty sure the world would keep turning, Child Protective Services would not care, the police would not care, and the baby would still stand as good a chance of ever of not growing up to become a drug addict. And the crazy “commentors” could move on to discussing ACTUAL distressing life situations rather than acting like bratty “NO FAIR!” spoiled brats themselves! *sheesh*
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