When I was pregnant with Mazzy, Mike was searching high and low for the perfect push present for me.
Ummm… maybe I should be more clear.
When I say Mike was searching for the perfect push present for me, I mean, I was searching for the perfect push present to tell Mike to get for me.
This is just how things work.
I decided a necklace engraved with my baby’s initials would be the perfect gift, but thought it was bad luck to get it before the big day, so Mike gave it to me closer to my first Mother’s Day. Three years later, I added a second child and a second charm to that necklace; a necklace I have worn almost everyday for the past five years.
“Mom Jewelry” is a term I didn’t know before I was a mom, but now it appears to be everywhere. Sentimental necklaces, rings, bracelets that do double duty as a pretty piece of a bling and a handy reminder if you ever forget your children’s names.
“I said stop pushing your sister— ummmm… uhhhh… what’s your name, again?”
Stop. Look down at necklace. See the letter M.
“Oh, that’s right, Mazzy.”
You laugh but you have no idea how often I have stumbled over Harlow’s name or how many times I have called Mazzy by my sister’s name.
There are many options for Mom Jewelry out there, but sometimes it’s hard to know what you are getting. You want something significant but don’t want to spend three years worth of diapers in one shot.
Carved Creations, a jewelry shop based in Austin (every New Yorker’s favorite city in Texas), makes substantial mom jewelry (they call it “mother’s jewelry” because they are fancy like that), using a blend of old world craftsmanship and the latest technology to customize high quality pieces with names, birthstones and birth dates. They will even do it in Roman Numerals if you prefer. There is nothing more significant than Roman Numerals.
I went on the site planning to get their stacking ring set. You can stack bands personalized with your children’s names and birth dates on top of gem rings with your child’s birth stone. I got one set for Harlow and one set for Mazzy and stacked them together.
Then I saw their LifeNames Toggle Bracelet and had to have that too. I put all four of our names around the circle enclosure just to drive it home that Mike and I will not be having any more kids.
And lastly, I saw their collection of men’s rings and thought of the perfect holiday gift for my dad and stepdad. My father was known as Jerry most of his life, then Dad once he had kids. But within the past five years, a new name has superseded every moniker he’s had before.
His name is Poppy.
That was the name he selected instead of Grandpa and it stuck. So much so that I have switched his name from Dad to Poppy in my phone. (This was partly because every time he called I said, “Dad is on the phone” and then my kids would get confused.)
The other Grandpa in my life is my stepdad. We have always just called him Sam. So, five years ago, I came up with the perfect new name for him too.
Grandsam.
Can you think of a better gift for Poppy and Grandsam than engraved rings making their new names even more official?
Me neither.
I got the LifeNames Sleek Band for Poppy and the LifeNames Channels Band for Grandsam.
I actually think “nickname jewelry” should be the newest trend in family fashion. Do you have a special name for your mom, dad, grandparents, aunts or uncles?
Leave a comment below telling me the nickname you would like to make official on a customized piece of jewelry and you could win one of three $250 gift cards to Carved Creations (CCforLife.com).
If you don’t think you’ll get lucky, you can use the code SHORTS50 to get $50 off any Carved Creations purchase through 12/31/14.
Giveaway: Three winners, $250 Carved Creations Gift Card each
1) Check out the jewelry on CCforlife.com and leave a comment answering the following question:
What nickname would you love to make official on a piece of jewelry and which piece from CCforLife.com would you put it on?
2) For a second entry, follow @CarvedCreations on twitter and tweet the following:
I just entered to win a $250 gift card to get my [insert nickname here] customized jewelry from @carvedcreations! http://bit.ly/1wyaQAv via @mommyshorts
That’s it! Three winners will be announced on December 17th.
You can find the full rules here.
Good luck!
UPDATE: The winners are 1) Gregory Tom with the 3 grandpas who want to be called “Gung Gung”, “Papa” and “Pepe”. 2) Jennifer whose mother likes to be called “Gigi” and 3) Cara F whose daughter calls her grandparents “A-Mi” and “A-Pa”. Thanks for playing!
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This post was sponsored by Carved Creations but all thoughts and opinions are my own.
I love the bracelet and the page pendant! We’re pretty traditional so mommy, daddy, grandma, Grammy, papa Bill, nana and grandpa. We’re soooooo unoriginal! (Unless you count the kids nicknames… Doodle monkey, Liamyloo, and Elie Bean)
We have a Poppy too, he is my husband’s grandfather. Everyone else is either a Mom-Mom or a Pop-Pop even though a few of the tried to be something else my kids always go back to those.
“Gigi” with all the grandkids’ names on either the LifeNames Toggle or Locking Bangle
My daughter is “sissy boo” to everyone.
I would get the
LIFENAMES LOVE NECKLACE
And put my Daughter’s nickname, HUBBA on it. So cute!!
I would put “My Sunshine” on the My Universe pendant.
My mom wanted my daughter to call her abuelita. She lives with us and I call her “Monchichi” (don’t ask me why! LOL it’s been so long I’m not what sure what I was thinking!) anyway, my daughter, no matter how many times I correct her, insists on calling her “Monchis” 🙂 nothing warms my heart more than going to my mom’s room every night and telling my 2 year old “say ‘buenas noches abuelita'” and she instead say “goo nite Monchis” 🙂
Lifenames Love Necklace with my mom’s name and my daughter’s name and their corresponding birth stones.
I have the goofiest nicknames for my kids. Bubs (real name is Bernie), Cocoa JoJo (real name is Samantha and Tootsie (real name is Charlotte). As they get older Im finding it increasingly difficult to refrain from using these odd nicknames in public…they’d die of embarrassment if their friends heard! Word of advice to new mothers, pick normal nicknames! I would add their names to the LifeNames Toggle Bracelet. Love this site.
A “papa” ring for my dad would be amazing!
I would put my mom’s self-chosen ‘grandma’ name, “Nona” on a toggle bracelet for her. She would love it….
My mother-in-law is known as Me-Mom, which I always forget how to spell. I’d get the LifeNames Love Necklace with her name and our kids’ names. Then when I forget I just have to get awkwardly close to her to see the spelling! 😉
My dad became g-pop when my daughter, Olivia,was born and he calls her O.P. Short for olive pit due to her being nicknamed olive in the womb.
We have so many nicknames for our son Harlow, I would do a page pendent and would put just a couple of the nicknames we call him.
Boog. Dudeski. Har-diddy. Baby boo boo. Love bug.
Having a little reminder of the love and affection we have for him would always make me smile. 🙂
My children all have nicknames:
Boo (No, we didn’t nickname him after Mazzy’s blanket. He is 12. Now I am embarrassed to point out that I have a 12 year-old that I call Boo. Only at home though and not in front of friends, because I don’t want him to hate me for the rest of his life.)
Gooby (We aren’t crazy, I promise. Although, even if I was I would still have written that. He is 10 and I am also no longer allowed to use this nickname around friends or in public.)
Beaker (This is my daughter who is 8 and still likes her nickname. Which makes it easier for me.
This is when I also mention that I have no idea where these nicknames came from. We didn’t plan on calling them these names, they just kind of evolved out of nowhere and they stuck. Try explaining that to people with dumbfounded expressions when they hear you call your kids their nicknames.
I would love the Page Pendant, it is beautiful and some day, which is soon approaching, these nicknames will be lost from lack of use. This makes me so sad because it signals the loss of my children’s childhood. I would love something physical to keep with me to remember this too short of time.
My husband’s nickname is Ferd, and our daughter is called Bear. I’d love a toggle bracelet with them on it!
Beach Grandma and Grandpa and Farmer Grandma and Grandpa. I’ve been trying desperately for years to get rid of those though!
My 21 month old daughter and her older cousin call my mother (their grandmother) “Namma (nam-ma)”. My niece started calling my mother that back when she was learning how to talk. She came up with it on her own and it just stuck. So I’d love to get our Namma a Lifenames love tag with the birthstones of both grand daughters.
“banana jo” My daughter couldn’t say gramma when she was younger, so it came out “banana”. Now, she is still banana Jo (instead of gramma jo)
I would love to put B.B. because that is what kiddos call their grandma – aka their most favorite person in the world!
My dad is also Poppy and the proudest Poppy he is! Would love to win the lifemate sleek band
Lifenames Pendant with “Nanna” on it. My mother spells it differently because there are 2 n’s in her first name.
My kids call my Mom, “G”!!! My mom wanted to be called Granny, which we all thought was hysterical because she looks nothing like what you would picture a Granny looking like. We tried to get my son Lincoln to say Granny but it only came out G. We liked that better and it has stuck! My sister and I occasionally refer to my mom as O. G.!!! LOL!
I would get “Gigi”, as my mom has a grandmother necklace with a pendant for each of her five grandchildren. She needs a piece with her special name on it too!
My mom would like “Bubbe” on a toggle bracelet, although if I’m going to be honest I have to admit that if I win I’m getting the toggle bracelet for myself. My mom really just wants a new photo key chain.
I would love to get my dad Zayde on a LifeNames Channels and it would be so fun to get my Godmother the Universe pendant set. She had her grandkids (mine included) call her Bella Nonna because in the end, they all just call her Bella, which means beautiful. And she is.
my father in law has all the grandkids call him ‘Pockets’. I would go with the toggle bracelet with my kid’s names though!
We have a Grandma, Papa, Yiayia, and Papou!
I love the Lifename Toggles Bracelet, it’s so precious. My daughter’s nickname is Lani though she calls herself Nani. My husband and I are Julie and John. Thank you for the opportunity and Happy Holidays!
I would love to put “Bob-Bob” on the channel ring for my father-in-law. I have never seen someone so immensely happy to be a grandfather.
We ended up with his nickname when my daughter was just making sounds around 6 months and kept saying bob-bob-bob-bob. Since his name is Bob, he thought she was talking to him already. He was so happy about it, we made sure that nickname stayed around 🙂
I would put “Pop” on a men’s ring for my husband. We’re a blended family and Pop was the name my son chose for my husband after we were married. We toyed around with all kinds of names and the kids wanted to call him “Popcorn.” We settled on “Pop.” It’s been over 10 years, my husband adopted the kids and our son followed in Pop’s footsteps as a United States Marine. Life is good.
2 sets of stinking rings…1 “Bug” and 1 “Bean”
Well our son is only three months old so we haven’t really gotten to the stage where he’s actually the one calling his grandparents by their names. My mom would love the simple GRANDMA on the simple LifeNames LoveTag Starter Necklace, along with JOEY, her first grandbaby’s name!
Okay I don’t really have a nickname I could think of to put on a pendant. but just had to share this one with you. My son has an uncle Larry. Larry was one of his first words and he said it clear as day all the time then when he was about 17 months old one day he saw him and said Ninnie out of the blue no rhyem or reason for it he is now almost 5 years old and has called Uncle Larry…Ninnie ever since. To top it off we are adopting a baby girl end of January and my sister n law asked my son if he was going to name her Ninnie his response was NOOOO its a girl not a boy!!!!! Uncle Ninnie said yep cause clearly Ninnie is a boys name!
My toddler calls me mamaka. He’s a cutie pie!
Aunt Kar-kar and Aunt Ti-ti both need their own ring!! They would flip out!
Our daughter calls my mom Safta (Hebrew for grandma) which I would LOVE to put on a LifeName Locking Bangle or my mom…she loves being Safta more than anything she’s ever done in her life. And she calls me Mommy Mama which is so sweet!
I am increasingly considering a transatlantic move- your competitions are so good and I am ineligible every time. If I could enter I would get my mum the Sofia Lovelink Bracelet – with “Mopsy” plus the names of her five grandkids – five in five years (not all mine!) and she is the best. I can’t even remember why she is called that but it totally works for her. I would happily receive any of their products but I do now kinda wish I had planned my kids’ birthdays around the colour of the gemstones rather than the academic year, no wait, maybe that’s going too far… So pretty though. Three kids and no push present (why did I not know?!) should justify a belated pretty thing, right?
Bub! For my mom, short for Bubby 🙂
I actually would love to give my sister-in-law the toggle bracelet for Christmas. She’s an amazing mom to my nephew and just an all around amazing person. She could use a bit if fancy in her life.
My 3 year old son calls my mom Grumpy Grandma. If you ask him if he wants to go to Grandma’s house, he will ask, “Grumpy Grandma?” We tried to get him to call her other things. Not working. I think a “Grumpy Grandma” necklace would be beautiful.
My little one calls her granny “Stick” – we have no idea how it started but we love it!
i would get the lifenames colorstyle bracelet for my husband- his nickname for a long time has been “dupa pete” which in polish dupa means ass. but don’t get upset, it’s endearing. my niece and nephew started calling him this when they were toddlers. in our family, dupa is used all the time for butt. he would probably hate it, but i think it would be an excellent choice.
I’d like Nin that’s my MIL’s nickname chosen when my first child was born (too young for Grandma & Nanna taken) x
My son calls my mother in law Blah Blah (because she talks a lot!) we’d put that on a toggle bracelet! (But I’d love to put my sons name on stackable rings!)
My mom goes by Gigi. It would be so cute to get her a necklace with that nickname on it from my two year old 🙂
My 15 month old calls her maternal grandma “Nanoo” and her paternal grandma “Dadee”
I call my son Maxwell, Maxie, which I just found out that it was also my mother-in-law’s nickname in high school. I would love to get her a toggle bracelet with that on it for her. Love it!
“Bama” on the stackable rings.
Id get my kids names on the toggle bracelet!
Forgot to mention the names! Lia & Kellan!
Those stacking rings! I love them! Though, I probably wouldn’t personalize them with my kids nicknames….I call my 4 year old, Zackaroo, and my 2 year old we still call “baby”. I’d probably go with their actual names. 😉
Love all of your choices! I think the bubbe and memere in our family would both love the toggle bracelets and the both papa’s would like the rings!
My daughter Rylee is now 14 months old, and ever since she was about 1 month old I have called her my little bug, and it has now developed to Rye-bug. I’d want to get that nickname on the stacking rings with her birthstone, sapphire.
I would get my daughter’s NeeNee themail Page Pendant Heart necklace with my daughter’s name, Hailea Lathan 🙂 She is NeeNee’s first grandchild!
When my son was born, we’d decided to have him call my mom “Lita,” short for “abuelita” which means “little grandmother in Spanish. (She’s very short). Well, for the first year, my son called her “Tita” because L sounds are hard. Then one day, he started switching syllables around. For example, pizza became “pazz-ee” and “Tita” became “Tah-tee.” My son is now almost 4 and adores his “Tah-tee.” We just moved a few states away from my mom and she misses him very much, so I’d love to get her stacking info or a life names bangle bracelet.
My dad became a widower twice before he ultimately ended up marrying the perfect woman for him. Her name is Janis and she just belongs in our family. My five year old daughter has coined the name “Granis” for her (combining grandma and Janis together). It’s a name only a grandmother could love and she’ll be hearing it twice as much when our 8 month old son starts talking.
*ps- she is a retired school teacher who never married until she met my dad in her sixties! She never had the opportunity to have children of he own so she treasures every moment with us and ours 🙂
I’m due in 2 weeks with my second son and would love to buy a Page Pendant for my boys’ Grammy (my mother-in-law) who is the hardest person in the world to shop for!
Plus you know that my husband has never even heard of a push present so maybe I could pick out a little something for myself for all my hard work! 😉
I would put My daughters names how they say it “Cawa” And “Audi” (cara, Audrey) on a page pendant.
Oops spelt my email wrong. I would put my kids’ names as they pronounce them “Cawa and Audi” ( cara/Audrey) on a page pendant 🙂
My mother goes by busia (grandmother in Polish). I would purchase the stacking rings, they’re beautiful.
I would love to have the LIFENAMES PAGEPENDANT HEART with the names of my children and spouse just so I can pause and think of them as I look at the pendant. That would be very special while I am at work,school or even running errands. It will be a reminder of love and motivation.
I would want to get all of the actual names of her grandkids on the cross pendant for my mother in law, but we have a ton of nicknames:
Evan (my kid) is Boogie or Evanboo.
I’m Lizard to everyone except for my nieces who call me Aunt Lizard and my kid who calls me Mommy or Baby (He’s almost 3 and thinks it is hilarious.)
Husband just goes by his name because he hates nicknames and everything fun.
My mother in law and her husband are Mimi and Poppy.
My father in law and his wife are Papa Mike and Linda.
My mother is Grandma Rosie and her boyfriend is Grandma Bill.
My uncle is Uncle Skunkle.
My husband’s best male friend is Aunt Jmo. (Because B-I-N-G-O used to sound like “B-I-Aunt JMo” when Evan sang it.)
My husband’s male coworker is Uncle Princess.
I tried the coupon code and it doesn’t seem to be working! 🙁
I would get “Peanut Butter’ and ‘Bubs’ on a page pendant for my two kids.
I would love to have “Mammie ❤️ Arabella” on one of the MyLife Bead Bracelets! It would mean the world to my mom. My daughter calls her Mammie and my step-dad Bampie.
Either “Bean” for my son, especially because my hubby hasn’t picked up on my hints I’d like a piece of mom jewellery since my first mother’s day, or “Nana” for my mom!
I WOULD PUT GRANDMA KIM ON A TOGGLE BRACELET FOR EACH OF MY GIRLS TO HAVE ON THEIR WEDDING DAY. MY MOM PASSED AND I WOULD LIVE TO GIFT THEM SOMETHING WIH HER NAME.
When my oldest was learning to talk he started calling me ‘Bob’ instead of ‘Mom’… We became ‘Bob and Dad!’
We also have a Poppy and Nana and a Grammy and an Aunt Jilly! 🙂
Love the stacking rings!!
When my son was 18 months, he started calling my mom (aka Grandma) “Fufa,” as in “Fufa Marsha.” I was hoping it would stick, but alas, it didn’t. I would get my mom a Lovelinks Kirsten bracelet with my kids’ names and a “We love you, Grandma” message. After I was born, my mother gave my grandmother a chunky gold bracelet to thank her for staying with my family and helping out with me. It had the following inscribed inside: “Thank you, Grandma. Love, Kerry Ann.” I’d never seen the inscription until after my grandmother died (about 10 years ago), when I inherited the bracelet, still contained in the original box with the store’s name and address! I’ve been meaning to get something equivalent for my mom to thank her for her help with both my children, and have never gotten around to it (my youngest is 3.5).
Besides the stacking ring for myself, I’d get my mom (Mimi) 2 LifeLove bangle bracelets. One with “Mimi” and the 2nd with all her grandchildrens names.
I’d put “Momack” on a page pendant.
My daughter came up with mema for my mom all on her own. When my nephew started talking he started calling my mil Anya ( we have no idea why) so that has stuck and that is what my daughter calls her too.
My daughter calls my dad p-pa and my fil grandpa Ken
I personally love the toggle bracelet and I would create poplinn. We would always say papa Linn and the kiddos thought we said “poplinn” and it stuck. Everyone thinks its so cute! 🙂
I would love the stacking rings for myself with my two girls’ names- Callie and Maya.
I would also love to get my parents the pendants- my girls call them Boom and Bops.
My mom (who is an actress and very into…herself. I love her!) decided my son should decide what he will call her. As soon as he started to babble in a consistent way, we would hear “ungee ungee ungee” My mom declared that was what he called her, and when he’d babble it, she’d reply, “yes?” So it stuck. She is Ungee. My son has come a long way from only being able to babble “Ungee” and now knows it as his maternal gradmother.
Grammy and Bapa!
my children have a Bubby and a Zaidy
Love the rings. I tried to place an order today and the discount code won’t be recognized. I will give it a shot tomorrow! Great Christmas idea for my mama, who goes by Nana, by the way.
i would get a toggle bracelet for my mother in law. When my oldest daughter was about three, we were driving to her house. My father in law was still with us at the time, and my daughter recognized the drive to their house. She asked “are we going to moomah and poopah’s house?” When I told them their new nicknames, my mother in law laughed and laughed at the name my father in law was given. Now that he’s gone, I think something engraved with their nicknames would be PERFECT.
We jokingly call our kids little Thor and Loki. My eldest seriously carries around a little toy hammer all the time (or Daddy’s rubber mallet if he can get it), is blond, loud, boisterous, and was a MASSIVE baby (10.8lbs birth weight!) Our second son died at 34 weeks, but was born with beautiful black hair, and before he was born, was super quiet in the womb compared to his little brother, and gave me the WORST indigestion, 24/7, quite the little behind-the-scenes trouble maker, I thought.
Couldn’t get those on jewellery though, I’d just look like a big fangirl (that I secretly am…).
We have 5 generations of women so it would be very tough to choose one name. It would be even more difficult because in addition to the 5 generations, I also have my paternal grandmother and my mother-in-law. There is Grandma, Big Nana (she’s taller at 5′), Mimi, Nana and Little Nana. I would choose a pendant and I would have to pick Mimi, not only was she was the last grandmother to get to choose her name but she is my
Mom and I love her!
i would love the staking rings and i would put my nick name which is (soslik)
I would get the Lovelinks Madeline bracelet for my mother in law, who is nicknamed Mimi. We have a Poppy too. Our daughter is 20 months and calls them “a-Mi and a-pa”.
Nana is what I called my maternal grandmother and now my kids calol my mom that.
My daughter adores my father and when she was just talking couldn’t say Grandpa, but she could say “Pa.” 6 years later and it’s well and stuck. I would love to get something with that, but my dad doesn’t wear anything even resembling jewelry so I’don’t likely go with one of the pendants and engrave it for Grammy.
I love the lifename locking bangle bracelet and would love to customize it for my mom who is not only MommaB but now GramB 🙂
My kids’ nicknames are Tamalito and Pitaya, and I would love to put those on stackable rings! Tamalito is my son, and that is his nickname, because when the nurses would swaddle him in the hospital, my husband said he looked like a little tamale, or tamalito. My daughter’s nickname is Pitaya, because when she was born, she had a red face and lots of hair that stuck straight up, so my husband said she looked like a dragon fruit, or pitaya in Spanish.
I would put Granny on the life names bangle bracelet for my mother in law. It’s so hard to find Granny on anything. Most pre personalized items say Grandma or Grandmom.
I would LOVE to get the stacking ring set with my daughter’s name, Ella Rose (named after my great grandma) and one that says family.
My 2 year old loves his Aunt LeeLee. Would love to have a bracelet from him with her special made up name on it.
We have a Grammy (my mom), a Nana (my step mil), a Papa (my dad), a Granpa (my fil), a GreatMama (my maternal grandma), a GreatNana (my paternal grandma), and a BizNonna (my gil)
oh please please… sometime let us Canadians in on the contests 😉
I would love to have stacking rings with my kids’ nicknames on them. They all have beautiful names, but we have nicknamed them all – including my girl being Lu.
I would get the LifeNames Toggle Bracelet for Mimi (husband’s mom)
When my now 7 year old was a toddler he couldn’t pronounce Grandma so he started calling my mom “Beba”. It has stuck and her other grandchildren have adopted the name.
sorry I don’t qualify since I am in Canada, please ignore my entry.
Since it’s just me and my daughter, we rely heavily on help from my sister and parents. My sister is our rock and stepped into the role of a “second parent” to my daughter without hesitation. I would love to get her the stackable rings, one that reads “Tati”, a very loose pronunciation of Auntie, the best my daughter could say at first, and it is now stuck solid!
My nephew couldn’t pronounce “Gramma” for my mom so it came or as “Guya.” It has stuck, four others grandkids later! And she never gets confused when people call her name because she is the one and only Guya!
My step daughter calls me Fuffy, so sometimes my son does too. I would love to have their names & Fuffy on a toggle bracelet!
I think my son’s nick name Smasher, my husband’s nickname Dr. Scooty and my nickname Chicken would look perfect on a toggle bracket.
My mom and dad go by Lolly and Pop. Lolly Pop!