When I originally designed our second bedroom, it was to become a nursery for my newborn baby girl. It had a big heavy three-drawer dresser that could double as a changing table, a crib, a bookcase, a small storage ottoman and a cushy glider for breastfeeding. It was a serene space and I carefully curated the shelves of that bookcase like it was my second job.
That room served us well, but it was never really meant for a growing girl.
Let alone two.
The book shelves became over crowded, we had no storage space for toys and fitting both girls’ clothes into one dresser was a pain. Mike kept claiming Mazzy and Harlow had too many clothes and I was like— no they don’t, they just have to fit it all into one drawer!
Shoes and socks were also a situation, deposited in six little bins that could barely be squeezed underneath the beds. Especially when we moved Mazzy to a full bed with only a box frame underneath.
That’s when things started piling up in front of the bookcase.
See that pink crumpled thing in the front? That’s the hamper and it hasn’t stood up straight in over three years.
Dress-up clothes were stuffed into the ottoman like clowns in a clown car. And then piled high with stuffed animals on top. Making finding the pink tutu with the bow on top and the matching tiara near impossible. “I’m sorry sweetie, that’s too hard. Pick something else.”
These were all the things I told the Land of Nod design service team when I filled out their questionnaire online, along with the room measurements, of course. (FYI- the Land of Nod design services are FREE, which having been through the process, I find very hard to believe.) Very quickly, I got an email back from a woman named Kim who said she would be working with me to redesign the space for the girls.
We talked on the phone and I told her about how the room had become a disaster area and how I was struggling to figure out how to fix it. For one thing, my husband wanted bunk beds and I thought it was really important for Mazzy and Harlow to each have their own side of the room.
Secondly, I realized we needed to let the glider go (it was taking up valuable space), but I still used it to read the girls bedtime stories, often with both of them sitting on my lap at once. I was sad to give that up.
I talked about how we had no room to put their clothes and how all their toys had overrun the living room because there was no storage in their bedroom. We couldn’t even really enforce clean up time, because there was no place to put anything away.
I told Kim about the plastic bins full of princess stuff and the plethora of dress-up clothes and Harlow’s love of necklaces. A love too big for any jewelry box.
I told her about my dining room table and how it had become a home for crayons, paper, craft items and coloring books that we transferred daily in piles to the couch when we sat down to eat. I told her about all the art Mazzy brings home from school. Piles and piles of papers she thinks are of utmost importance, not to mention the three-dimensional wood projects!
My entire apartment had become one big storage unit for my girls.
I also told Kim about all the issues with the room that make it hard to fill with furniture— the air conditioner that juts out over a foot into the room, how the window isn’t centered and the column that prevents you from putting two beds against the back wall. I told her that the ceiling is concrete so we have no overhead lights and have to rely on lamps.
As I went through our numerous issues and expectations, I became convinced making this room work for my daughters was an impossible task. Maybe she would suggest I move at the end of the call?
But Kim seemed undaunted and told me she would send along a mood board, room mock-up, and a shared Pinterest board with all the products she was considering.
The process moved quickly from there and made me a little a nervous, to be honest. I realized we were designing the room for two little girls, making the jump from Harlow as a baby. She wouldn’t have a crib anymore and it didn’t make sense to incorporate a changing table. I knew I should probably start changing Harlow in the bathroom anyway, to get her used to doing her business there, but still, this was an adjustment. Was Harlow ready to be in a big girl bed??? I didn’t really know.
Two days after our phone call, Kim sent a mood board of the bedding with a few key pieces:
I loved it (although I was still unsure about the bunk beds) and gave my approval. A few short days later, Kim sent a second email which included a layout of where all the furniture would go in the room…
She also sent an invite to a private Land of Nod Pinterest board with links to all the products and paint swatch options for the walls.
(I transferred everything to a public Pinterest board and you can follow it here.)
Lastly, Kim sent pencil illustrations of how each side of the room would look when it all came together…
I have always been a big believer in letting people who know what they are doing do their jobs (something I learned from being a Creative Director in advertising for 15 years), so I didn’t really change anything Kim presented. Sometimes the hands-off method works out for me and sometimes it doesn’t, but I don’t have time to micromanage room decor if I don’t have to. A lot of the items weren’t things I would have chosen myself (like the army green wall shelves) but I recognized this is why Kim has this job and I don’t. Every room should have unexpected choices and if it was left in my hands, everything would be pink.
I did have a few practical issues that I brought up— like Kim’s first design incorporated only one dresser, which I know looks better in a small room, but really didn’t meet our needs. I also wasn’t sure we would have enough lighting, so Kim took a second stab at that too.
Kim also provided two layouts— one with two separate beds and one with the bunk beds. With a gentle nudging, I had to agree— the bunk beds made more sense.
Kim revised the layout to incorporate a second dresser and added more lamps and then I took a leap of faith and went for it.
Stay tuned tomorrow for the reveal!
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Follow Mazzy and Harlow’s room design board on Pinterest for links to all Land of Nod products.
A huge THANK YOU to Land of Nod for working with me. Tomorrow, I’ll have a discount code for everyone too!
Ahhhh! I can’t wait to see the reveal! Is it tomorrow yet?
This is great – so good to know. I have 2 kids, Girl 4 and Boy 2 who share a room and it’s not at all functional – also L shaped. I will definitely be contacting them!
I can’t wait to see your reveal! My son has a fairly small room as well and I wanted it to be a cool space for him- where he would want to sleep but also a play area for wet or cold days. It was easier when he had a toddler bed but making the jump to a “big boy” bed made it so much harder. You don’t realize how much room a twin bed takes up until you have to fit stuff in around it! We ended up with a loft bed with a slide. Still takes up loads of room but at least it has a storage/play area under it. Now I am constantly battling new toys and not letting random stuff collect in there. The struggle is real.
“And I curated those book shelves like it was my second job” had me snorting out loud at work. The things we do before we realize the next set of priorities, hahaha.
I can’t wait! I can’t! I’m dying here!!
Oh my goodness, we have to wait!! Here I was patiently scrolling down so I could read it all in order and not ruin the surprise! I can hardly stand the excitement! 🙂
Obsessed with pretty much all of this. My daughter has a small room (though it’s just her) and even though she’s only five months old, my insane brain has already started thinking about how I’m going to set it up when she has big girl furniture. This gives me hope! Oh, and her room is entirely white and pink, so I can appreciate your comment about unexpected touches.
THANK YOU for sharing the picture of your messy living room. That is real life, yo.
Your post just validated my home for me beautifully!!! We have three small mosters, 5, 2 and soon to be 2 on Friday (yeah for birthday season). Our house is a toy disaster recovery area constantly! I feel like between the little green army men, transformers, stuffed animals, legos and the dolls strewn around the house that I cannot walk into any room without stepping on a flipping toy!!! I had always assumed your house was immaculate and clutter free (due to your clever, clever cropping), but now the cat is out of the bag (in a good way) and I feel sooooooo much better about my home and it’s beautiful clutter! Once again, you’ve made my day with a post! What would I do without you???? 🙂
What a fun job and exciting adventure to see it all come to life. Can’t wait to see tomorrow!
Wow I just got done doing this for my own 11 year old daughter, who has been promised a real bedroom of her own for years and now finally has it. I wish I had known about this before spending the last two weeks hunched over my computer and drawing it all out by hand myself! Can’t wait for the reveal!
Oooh! Can’t wait to see the results!
I moved my four yro up to a big girl bed, because she was just to tall for a toddler bed. Since her room is like a toy store exploded, we got a lofted bed (Ikea’s mid-level one). It is awesome. Play nook underneath, but still low enough I don’t worry about her climbing in and out (it has rails around the entire bed). She is so proud, and we no longer have company in our bed every night!
There are so many versions of bunks too that include extra storage. I was nervous too, and covered the floor in pillows for a week, but kids really are great with bunks.
Could you pretty please send Kim over to my house!? I have two boys very close to M and H’s age and we’re in the same situation.
Hi Sarah! Our Design Services team would love to help if you’re interested. Figuring out how to store toys and other kids stuff can be daunting. You can learn more about our design services here: http://www.landofnod.com/Design-Workshop
ahh! I was looking forward to the after pictures!
I kind of love this for this reason – seeing your house cluttered like everyone else’s! Or at least mine anyway. I have always been a little envious that your pictures seem to show a nice put together house and I feel that toys take over our living room! We don’t have a toy room and their bedrooms are on a different level so we don’t put toys in their room….. our house is always cluttered with KID STUFF! So I’m kind of glad to see yours is the same 😉 or was.. until the next post.
Cannot wait!!!!!! Looks like it’s going to be amazing
I can’t wait to see the reveal. I’m considering bunk beds for my two girls (2 & 3 years old) but I’m not sure yet.
Cliffhanger!!! Can’t wait to see the big reveal!
Can’t wait to see the finished room!!!!
I think I love Kim. Ha! I can’t wait to see the final room!
It’s so weird to see the “fourth wall” of the girls’ room and the living room. I guess I’ve always thought of your apartment as a movie set :-/
Also, I can’t believe you’re making us wait!!
I’m taking notes here and looking forward to the reveal! We’re in a two bedroom house and expecting #2 in Sept and I’ve been firmly ignoring the storage issue that we’re about to have. Sure baby can room in with us for a few months but still: double the clothing, double the ‘stuff’ and double the… fun? Where the hell is all that stuff going to go?!?!
Hoping that we’ll be able to buy a bigger house by the end of the year but the way the housing market is going in my city combined with the fact that we have a seriously cheap rent in a seriously good neighbourhood (that we could never afford) is making me think we may be renting a bit longer 😛
This is amazing to know since I already have a board of mostly Land of Nod stuff for when I put my now 2 year old and 5 year old in the same room. I am so not ready to take my 2 year old out of her crib but when I do, I am definitely going to use this service. I could use the M and H pillows too as that is my girl’s initials too!
I love this! I’m definitely going to have to use these services. I have 2 girls, 7 & 2 that share a bedroom now and we’ll be adding a baby brother in 3 weeks. Not sure where we are going to put everyone once the baby moves out of our room if we don’t end up moving, so this will be very useful. Can’t wait for the big reveal!
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