Besides diapers and wipes, every mom has different items they feel are absolutely necessary to tote around in their diaper bag. Whether this is your first baby or you’re a card-carrying professional who just popped out your fifth child, these items can tell a lot about your parenting style.
Do any of the seven moms below sound like you? Let me know in the comments and you could win a brand new diaper bag from Lily Jade.
the brand spankin’ new Mom:
Bag Featured: Rosie in Brandy
Her bag is packed until the stitching strains with everything the internet, the baby books, her doctors, her friends and probably a few random strangers told her she absolutely needs to have on hand at all times. Wipes, backup wipes, five diapers, a change of clothes, Sophie, a backup Sophie, hand sanitizer, a hat, socks, a change of socks— and that doesn’t even count whatever’s in all those side pockets! Never mind the fact that she’s only going down to the end of the driveway to get the mail.
the “I saw it on pinterest” mom:
Bag Featured: Cailin in Royal Purple
This mom’s baby is never bored because she’s toting all the supplies to create age-appropriate on-the-go activities whenever her child needs a little stimulation. At a restaurant? She whips out her DIY collapsible art tray with an assortment of handmade crayons. On a road trip? She’s got a puzzle made of popsicle sticks to combat boredom and homemade yogurt drops sealed in a mason jar for snacking. You can spot her easily because she’s wearing a coordinated outfit with her baby. Hand sewn of course. A peek inside her diaper bag reveals a selection of headbands decorated with over-sized felt wool flowers. Oh, didn’t you know? She sells them on Etsy.
the hover like a Helicopter Mom:
Bag Featured: Caroline in Brandy
You’d better get out of this mom’s way, or risk being knocked down by her diaper bag as she rushes to reapply yet another layer of sunscreen to her toddler’s face. It’s the super thick stuff too. No easy out with a spray. She’ll be happy to give you a disinfecting wipe for your child’s hands, as long as you keep an eye on her little one for the brief millisecond her gaze is averted. Why’s her bag so heavy? Could be the fully-stocked first aid kit (you can’t be too careful!) or the 700 page book “Your Essential Guide To Kindergarten”. Sure, her baby’s barely walking but it never hurts to start your research early!
the “OH MY GOD I’m Exhausted” Mom:
Bag Featured: Meggan in Black
There’s a lot of necessary items missing from this mom’s diaper bag— like diapers. And snacks. And oh crap. WHERE DOES THAT PACIFIER KEEP DISAPPEARING TO??? However, she does have plenty of other essentials, like her trusty Starbucks gift card (sadly, there’s only $0.37 left on that thing), a bottle of iced coffee (hey, there’s a special insulated pouch in there that’s made for carrying bottles!) and an oversized pair of sunglasses meant to disguise the fact that this mom hasn’t slept more than two hours since the baby was born TWO YEARS AGO.
the eco-friendly all-natural organic Mom:
Bag Featured: Madeline in Red Canvas
This mom and her baby don’t need to tote around much. She’s planning to breastfeed indefinitely so meals and snacks are covered. Those bottle pouches on the side of her bag? She uses them to stuff her reusable cloth diapers until she can get them in the wash. Her ultra-safe eco-friendly detergent was concocted in her kitchen because it’s the only way she can ensure it’s truly chemical-free. Whenever boredom strikes, she pulls out an unpainted wooden toy, purchased from an artisan’s booth at a nearby farmers’ market and cleansed with essential oil-infused all-natural towelettes. The only thing smaller than her 100% cotton, dye-free portable changing pad is her baby’s future carbon footprint.
the PSEUDO CELEBRITY Mom:
Bag Featured: Sarah Grace in Gold
Just because there’s no paparazzi at the playground doesn’t mean this mom and her baby’s outing isn’t news-worthy. Or at least share-worthy. Every moment is an Instagram moment perfectly orchestrated to show the world her aspirational brand of motherhood. In addition to a wardrobe change (for both her and her baby), this mom’s diaper bag contains a selfie stick (obviously), a brush (for perfect windswept baby locks) and nail polish. You can’t hold up an ice cream cone for a close-up with a chip on your thumbnail! OH, THE HORROR.
the been there done that Mom:
Bag Featured: Elizabeth in Camel
One glance at this mom’s diaper bag tells you she’s been around the block a time or two… or three or four. It contains one diaper, which is probably a size too small but she can make it work, and one pacifier (she’s not worried about getting those crumbs off it, because that’s what pant legs were made for). Littered with empty granola bar wrappers and broken crayons (two signs of successful parenting as far as she is concerned), this bag is may not contain wipes or clean tissues— but if she rummages around long enough she’ll probably find an old napkin, which is close enough.
Not matter what kind of mom you are, Lily Jade diaper bags are an excellent choice to fit all your essentials.
They have sophisticated leather and canvas options, all with their removable ‘baby bag organizer insert‘ which stores everything you need for your baby. You can easily remove the insert when you are going somewhere without the kids, creating a fabulous bag no one would ever guess you use for diapers and wipes regularly.
Today, I’m giving away one Lily Jade bag to one lucky reader!
Just pin the graphic with the diaper bag Mom whose description fits you best — then copy and paste the URL to your pin in the comments below! You must follow both Mommy Shorts and Lily Jade on Pinterest to win.
I’ll pick one winner at random on September 28th.
Good luck!
AND THE WINNER IS…
Samantha, who says “I’m a little bit of all of them but mostly the “brand spankin’ new mom.” Congrats! Please contact annie@mommyshorts.com to claim your prize.
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I’m a combo of the first and last, depending on the day. Second time mom, 6 1/2 years apart (that might explain it.)
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Didn’t finish reading the directions the first time ????
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I really need a new diaper bag, mine is currently destroyed and in disarray 😛
Do hope it comes with shipping, greetings from Holland.
I’m the been there done that…and have a can or bottle of diet coke in my bag.
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I am the exhausted mom with two girls-two years old and 6 months old! These bags are beautiful and I love following you!!
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But we might need it!! lol
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Totally been there done that mom! Third boy! If my husband packs the bag, it’s more like first time mom with something important missing. He will have like 20 diapers but zero wipes, or 12 bottles with no formula. It’s hilarious.
Based on what is in the diaper bag, I am really a mix. But always have sunscreen, bug spray and bandaids. I can most closely relate to the exhausted mom today though and could use some help in the staying awake department!
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Although I’m expecting my second, I’m still fully loaded when we leave the house like the first time mom! Gotta be prepared! ????
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I picked the BTDT mom… Although I do always have wipes with me. And probably will even after we’re done with diapers. Those things can be used for a hundred different things! ????
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HA! I have had wipes get out chocolateand BBQ sauce before, they are awesome
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I’d like to see a “Practical and Prepared” mom category. I’m a first-timer who packs more like a Been-There mom – three diapers, wipes pouch, empty bottle, packet of formula, extra onesie, Sophie, soft book, burp cloth. I have to recommend a great item for restaurants – the Bendy Bird, an interactive toy that suctions to the table.
I am the same. I am on baby 2 but still have the extras needed X2 I have a bird like that but he doesn’t stick very well
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The I’m so exhausted mom! Cause im so exhausted!
My bag is closest to “been there done that” even though I only have one child. Yikes, for the second child some day!
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Cute post. Truly I’m a little mix of all. Some more than others from day to day!
I think I’m a BTDT mom with a little bit of hover mom thrown in, mostly because if I don’t have back up frozen bandaids… *shudder*. https://www.pinterest.com/pin/122089839875895926/
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Somehow even with only 1 kiddo (a young toddler), my bag looks like the “been there done that” Mom! I figure that unless I’m going to the middle of nowhere, I can always find something I may not have brought with me!
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Some combination between btdt and too tired… And my youngest is 2.5 (the big girl bed is also a struggle here).
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Been there done that for sure. AND I pinned that exact bag last week! Would love to have it for my second baby due in January!
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Been there done it mom
I’m more of a combination of the “oh my god I’m exhausted” mom, and the “been there, done that” mom. I call myself the “been there, done that abs I can’t believe I’m still exhausted!” mom. My oldest daughter is 4 and my newest is a mere 3 weeks old, but she came with hey own agenda to ruin my life (and I’m OK with that).
I am the been there done that mom, and it’s my first kid. I’m scared for the next ones! ha!
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Ok, I’m a combo of helicopter mom and eco friendly mom. BUT that’s mostly because of health issues lol. So, although I’m a first time mom, I will probably be that way with all my children. But if you saw my diaper bag you would find lots of snack wrappers, crumbs and probably half a crayon with teeth marks in it. Because we’re all exhausted moms and who has time to clean a diaper bag?
For the 1st 6mo. I was a typical 1st time mom, car stroller and diaper bag packed to the gills with anything that was remotely baby related. But that is exhausting and heavy and I never used any of it. Now 2yrs. Later I’m a combo of the natural/organic “hippy” mom and the BTDT mom 🙂 you’ll definitely find some organic grain-free fair trade non GMO granola bar wrappers in my bag LOL!
And we breastfeed and babywearing in my toddler Tula! So a lily jade backpack would just be n perfect!
I’m a definite mix of all the above! Mainly the Been There momma. I think it’s because I’m so unorganized. hahaha
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I’m a mixture of the been there done that and the helicopter mom! But with 2 kids I’m sorta a bit of all of them!
I’m the “Been There, Done That” mom, for sure! However I like the Pinterest mom bag the best! Love the purple color
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The Elizabeth in Camel is EVERYTHING! Love that bag.
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Definitely the “been there done that” mom… Have a 4 yr old, almost 2 yr old, and due anyday with our 3rd daughter. I go through diaper bags like there is no tomorrow! Need a good organizational one! Or maybe an extra for daddy to carry!!!
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The brand spankin’ new mom…5 month old and I literally pack all those things every. single. time!
I was definitely the first when my daughter was born 3 and a half years ago but now with a toddler/preschooler and half-way through my second pregnancy I have morphed into the last. No toy to play with while out to dinner, no problem! Here is an old shopping list and a sharpie, have at it! I love love love these bags by the way!
I’m definitely the been there done that mom. I have 3 kids 5 and under.
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I was everything and more listed for the “first time mom” with my son and since my two are so close together I am still that way with my daughter. Although, I am definitely re packing the bag soon because with my son I was a nanny outside of the home so I had to pack everything he needed for 10 hours away from home. Now I stay home so I don’t need nearly as much for the quick trips to the store and park.
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Been there, done that, though I do usually actually have wipes now that I’ve got a 4 month old AND a 2-year old!
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Even though I only have one daughter who is 2, I definitely am more the “been there done that” diaper bag mom =)
Been there done that with a side of oh my god I’m so tired. 🙂
I’m definitely a helicopter parent with a diaper bag approach somewhere between the first time mom and BTDT Mom.
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I am the been there done that mom. I don’t even have a diaper bag. I use a purse and I’m ruining all my purses with all the broken crayons and sticky things that end up on the bottom of my purse!
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I’m somewhere in between “Brand Spankin’ New ” and “Been There Done That”. I only have one kid, a 2.5 year old girl. I definitely used to overpack and over-prepare (and still do sometimes) but now I have a tendency to just grab and go and make do with what we have – partly because I have learned that I don’t really need most of the stuff I used to lug around, and partly because I have just gotten lazy about restocking the diaper bag – ha! But our diaper bag is falling apart and is severely lacking the pockets/organization department, so I would LOVE a Lily Jade bag! I’ve had my eye on them for awhile. 🙂
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Totally exhausted mom. I need a pot of coffee and roll with at least one change of clothes and a tablet. Kids have entirely too much energy and its not fair. Of course my mother likes to call me an “older parent” SMH
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I am the been there done that mom. I have three kids and I don’t have a diaper bag. I use my purses as diaper bags and I’m ruining them all with the crayons and sticky things that end up at the bottom!
Oops! Didn’t meant to post twice. I thought the first one didn’t post. Sorry!
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Had a little bit of trouble pinning so hopefully it works fine!
Been there done that mom. One diaper, some wipes, restaurant crayons, few hot wheels, a straw, and some sort of snack either packaged or in a ziploc.
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I’m definitely the exhausted mom. Always have been but I have lots of friends who are the celebrity mom and have no idea how one carries all this junk in a nice, clean purse. This was a good laugh. Thanks!
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This was my first baby… but my bag looks like a mix of pro and new mom. Shes two so I’ve adapted. Two diapers, an almost empty pack of wipes, one outfit that doesnt match and a baby doll.
To top it off when I know we are going out for a while I add in my old phone that I’ve loaded with toddler apps.
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I’m definitely a Been There Dome That Mom but I still sometimes remember to bring wipes and at least 1 diaper for each of the youngest two. Sometimes a change of clothes but most of the time I bring a shirt but forget the pants or vice versa. You’d think by child 5 I’d have a better bag but I guess I live best chaos. https://www.pinterest.com/pin/98868154297403769/
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I am definitely the been there, done that type. I carry a drawstring bag instead of a real diaper bag because it stays on my back. I have been following and drooling over Lily Jade bags for a while because it could be worn on my back but also look a heck of a lot better than my drawstring Nike bag.
Oh my word, I am (or have been) all of these moms. Currently a been there done that mom. Couple of diapers and maaaaybe a dinky car are about all that are in my bag these days. 🙂
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I’m the “been there done that” mom!
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I can definitely relate to the first 4 moms but I am the brand spankin’ new mom to a T! Ask me about my giant duffel bag aka diaper bag! How many things/people have I knocked over with it? How bad does my back hurt? How about I don’t use half the stuff because I can’t find it? Pick me! https://www.pinterest.com/pin/53761789279444258/
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Because I’m the mom of a 14 year old boy and a 6 year old girl who both hand me things to hold “for a minute”. I still need a giant bag, but I don’t want people assuming I’m preparing for a bun in the oven. (I’m just fluffy)
Dealing with a 5 year old, toddler twins and working full time I’m lucky if there is a diaper in my purse or diaper bag!
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Btdt Mom here. I’ve got a 3 yr old, 2yr old and 3 month old. My diaper bag is interesting to say the least. ????
Definitely a ‘been there done that’ mom – even though I only have one, I don’t take it all too seriously and want to have fun with my kiddo!
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I’m a new mom at 38, but not new to the world lol. I have a love hate relationship with my diaper bag. I love having everything I need, but hate having yet another bag to carry. Laptop bag, purse, lunch bag and now a diaper bag. I’d like a nice leather diaper bag like this to hold my personal stuff, everything I need for my nearly one year old, and my lunch! https://www.pinterest.com/pin/88805423877922550/
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I am a hybrid of the new mom, the helicopter mom (granted i carried all the things before i had a kid) and the eco mom. Almost ten months into this whole morning thing i am definitely getting better at not hauling everything with me every time we go out.
I’m the BTDT mom and now I’m PG with surprise baby Number 3 and I’m freaking out a little since I got rid of almost all of the baby stuff.
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I USED to be the Brand Spankin New Mom (I had every one of those items in my bag)…. then I had another child…. that quickly changed to Been There Done That.
The been there done that mom!! Before I started reading I thought there needs to be a category that even after 2 years I forget the wipes! We make it work 🙂
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The brand spankin’ new mom!
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I am a mixture of the 1st 3.. Brand new Mom bc I am always prepared.. Pinterest mom bc I am a teacher at heart.. Helicopter mom bc I have no trouble sharing disinfectant wipes, and I always have 3 bottle of hand sanitizer on me.. #notashamed #5diapersinmybag #germsareeverywhere
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I’m actually a combo of the first and last mom. A “been there done that” ease, with bit of the overkill a new mom has — especially when it comes to diapers and wipes. It only takes one huge blowout on the day you left the house without making sure there was at least one diaper in the bag!!
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definitely the exhausted mom these days! 🙂
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Been there done that for sure
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I’m totally the been there done that mom. Pregnant with my third child. I do however have wipies most of the time cuz I use them for everything.
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I thought I was the omg I’m so tired mom, because why yes I would love to keep extra coffee in my diaper bag. But alas, every bag I own, diaper or otherwise, looks like the been there don’t that diaper bag. I’m usually ill prepared but I’ll go with the flow.
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I’m somewhere between the been there done that mom and the too tired mom.
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Yes, been there still doing it ????
I’m definitely the “been there done that mom”. What gorgeous bags. I might use one even without a baby! https://www.pinterest.com/pin/92534967321494693/
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Definitely the Been there done that mommy!
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Definitely the exhausted Mom! But let’s be real here, all his stuff gets shoved in my purse most of the time anyways because I am way too tired and cranky to be carrying around the big ugly diaper bag that my husband INSISTED was manly enough. Ugh.
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I’m the been there mom, even though I’m still a first-timer…not sure how that’ll work out with my second kid!
I am the been there done that with another on the way lol. I always have what I need in the diaper bag plus a few things I do t need because let’s face it I have 2 kids who are always giving me stuff and it goes in the diaper bag lol
I’d like to think I’m an eco friendly mom but my attitude leans more towards, bee. There, done that mom. In the end, I’m just an exhausted mom who really hasn’t slept in 3 years….
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So tired I didn’t even write correctly. Meant to say “been there done that. Ugh. Where’s the coffee?
This is so me!
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Totally me, right down to the hand-in-hair move.
The eco-friendly mom, definitely! 🙂 It’s hilarious to hear myself described that way, but it’s soooo true.
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I’m the been there done that mom with two. My bag is always stocked with one thing, it’s either I’ve got wipes and diapers or I’ve stocked snacks. Never seem to have both.
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Absolutely a combo of all…depends on the day (minute, second) you catch me, so I picked my favorite bag. Love Lily Jade bags!!
My bag looks most like “been there done that” since we are usually racing out of the house to get to our destination on time.
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I am the been there, done that mom! I have been since the start!