There’s a new commercial from American Greetings that is definitely worth watching. NOTE: This is not sponsored. I just really love when brands acknowledge tough situations that aren’t always talked about out in the open. The commercial deals with a couple who, like many couples out there, are having trouble conceiving a child.
I had trouble getting pregnant, both before Mazzy and before Harlow. It took time, there were many setbacks and doctors were involved. Still, I know it’s not nearly to the extent that some people have struggled. Also, I can now say that I have two healthy children while many others are still trying to find help and answers.
But I can remember the feeling of having a secret battle buried in the background of my everyday life. Trying to live my normal routine and pretending that everything was fine. Going to the gym, the office, out with friends, like any of it mattered. Dodging playful questions about when we were going to have a baby and hiding the pain of setbacks when most friends and family didn’t even know that we were trying.
The scene in the commercial that really got me is the pain behind the woman’s smile when she is trying to be happy for someone else at their baby shower. I think every woman struggling to get pregnant has been in this exact scenario and I thank American Greetings for showing them that they are not alone.
I also thank them for not providing the happy ending that would have made me angry at the time I was in a similar position.
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You need to put a tissue icon next to these posts as a warning. Finally, a company got it right.
😭 oh my gosh that was one of the most perfect commercials ever.
Thanks for sharing this – it made me feel a little less alone.
Wow. I’m tearing up, dammit. It hits so close to home. I remember how I even hated going grocery shopping because I was trying when Bragelina and Katie Holmes were pregnant/having kids and they were on every damn cover and wondering why the hell I couldn’t get pregnant.
Luckily, my issue was an easily fixable one and I did seek out a doctor earlier versus waiting years and now I have two beautiful children.
But at the time? And yes, the baby showers, being so happy for your friend but yet so jealous and wondering if it would ever happen to you.
Wow. This is just wonderful and gets the tone so, so right. Infertility is such personal, often private journey that can be so isolating. It’s so great when someone or something can remind you you’re not alone. Thank you for sharing.
This. Is. Amazing!
Everything about this is perfect. Such respect for this company. Having just gone through this, it is so touching.
Thanks for sharing, I can relate. and yes, a card is just a card but it’s everything in the right moment.
Keep the inspiration coming.
Thank you for posting this. As a woman who struggled for eight years to have my son and another eight years to have my daughter, I have always felt pain about announcements of pregnancies and tinged of jealousy at showers. It’s really hard to deal with. I have miscarried 8 times and all I ever wanted was a big family. My husband and I had to finally do IVF. I get so angry when I hear stories of women that don’t appreciate their children or hurt them in any way.
❤️this video was like watching apart of my life that was really difficult for me but after ten years of heartbreak I finally have 3 beautiful children
I love this so much. I cried from the first failed pregnancy test they showed. What a powerful ad.
I havn’t got the guts to open the video cause i’m afraid i will turn into a mess (4 years of trying here). Got misty eyes just by reading the comment. Thanks mommy shorts for acknowladging this issue
Love this. Took us a year to conceive the first time, and it felt like everyone around us was pregnant except us. I know that a year isn’t that long, but at the time I was heartbroken.
This month marks for us four years of actively trying with medical help with no result yet. The light at the end of the tunnel seems so far away right now. We are not even sure whether we’ll ever get to fulfill the dream we had to complete our family. Thank you Ilana, thank you American Greeting for reaching out at the darkest point of our lives.