When I was five and my baby sister was born, I remember doing everything I possibly could to ensure that her first word was “Ilana.” I’d say it to her repeatedly, even sneaking into her room while she was napping to whisper it by her ear while she slept. Kind of creepy when I think about it.
It worked though and my sister’s first word was “Nana,” which I was convinced was her way of saying my name. It’s had lasting power too because “Nana” is now what my sister has told her kids to call me. Jack and Neve both refer to me either as “Aunt Nana” or just plain “Nana.” My kids call my sister “Yaya” but that’s because her name is hard to say. I believe “Yaya” is actually Grandma in Greek, but not to my family.
When Mazzy was a baby, I used to repeat “Mama” to her all the time too, but for whatever reason, she said “Dada” way before “Mama.” You can read all about Mazzy’s long journey to saying my name here. Better yet?
Here is video proof:
My understanding is that the “Da” sound is easier to say than the “Ma” sound so many babies actually say “Dada” before “Mama.” It has nothing to do with them choosing favorites, as much as Mike liked to rub it into my face at the time.
Jimmy Fallon, apparently, is just like my five-year-old self. When his baby was born, all he wanted was for her to say “Dada” and repeated it over and over again to no avail. This led to his best-selling children’s book “Your Baby’s First Word Will Be DADA,” in which different Daddy Animals say “Dada” to their offspring without getting the desired response.
A few weeks ago, I was invited to an event at the Rainbow Room (that’s the top of 30 Rock which also houses NBC) to celebrate the launch of Jimmy Fallon’s follow-up book, “Everything Is Mama.”
I guess, in the short time since his first book (his baby is now four), Jimmy learned that even if you get your baby to say “Dada” first, you might still find yourself playing second fiddle to Mama. In his new book, every word that is said by the parent, is met with the word “Mama” from the child. Shoes, apple, sun and yes, even waffle (my personal favorite.)
Today, I’m giving away a set of both books. I wish I could say they were signed, but alas, I lost my nerve to go up to him. It seemed a little weird when everybody else had brought their kids to the event. Mazzy and Harlow were in school and were pretty pissed that I did not pull them out.
“How do you even know who Jimmy Fallon is???” I asked.
“From Taxi TV!!!!” They told me. Segments from the Tonight Show do indeed play in the back of NYC cabs. I wonder if Jimmy Fallon realizes he’s gaining tiny fans without even trying.
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Charlie’s first word was NO and Benji’s first word was bus….well some variation of it.
Both of my children said Dada first.
Nani as in banani as in banana…. we ate a lot of banana
My daughter’s (now 4) first word was ‘mama,’ however my almost 7 month old son’s first word is ‘dada.’ He won’t even babble when I’m around, but as soon as his daddy is in the room, everything is ‘dada!!’ Needless to day, my husband finds this hilarious…
Needless to say… ugh. Typing on a phone is tough!! 🙈
Juice!
Rose’s first word is dog. It’s usually accompanied with a pointed finger. Dad and I are pretty low on the totem pole!
Both of my girls’ first word was “NO”! Ha! My older daughter said “dada” before “mama”, naturally, but the younger one said “mama” before “dada”. Go figure! 🙂
My son’s first word was mama and my daughters first words were hi! She now says it to everyone we see!
My Daughter’s first word was ducky and my son’s first word was go.
My son’s first word was Dada. I blame it on reading Jimmy Fallon’s book to him a lot!
Dada and WOW! Poor poor me 🙁
Both my boys first word was mama. I have a four-month old and am feeling the pressure for a three-peat 😉
My sons first word was puppy. It’s still the only word he uses consistency and correctly.
My son’s first word was “mum” for mama, and “dada” came next. I hadn’t heard of these books before, they look adorable.
My son’s first word was uh-oh.
My little one is almost 9months old and I whisper “Mama” to her all the time. Recently, I caught my husband doing the same with “Dada”!
My son’s first word was ‘ba ba’, but he still said ‘dada’ way before ‘mama’… m y daughter’s first word was ‘dada’.
I think all three of my kids’ first word was “mama!”
“Go”. She was really into The Cat In The Hat on PBS. She was watching it at my in laws and suddenly it was just “GO GO GO GOGO!”
My daughter’s first word was “more.” She would say it (repeatedly!) while pointing to the cabinet that housed the snacks. Unfortunately, it sounded kind of like “ma” so people think she was saying “mama” and I would have to explain, “no — it’s actually ‘more’ and she just wants puffs!”
I believe my oldest son’s first word was “moo” my second son’s first actual words I don’t remember as well but one of them was actually “elephant” he spoke very early and clearly and my youngest isn’t talking yet but she loves to shake her head no.
My son’s first word was diaper!
“Hi” was one of them!
Does baby sign count? My girls both said “milk” “eat” and “more” by signing it. First words out of their mouths was mama
My boys were both “dada” though my youngest likes to say his first word was ” mama” because he’s only 4 and still a mama’s boy. He was “dada” though (and totally because the “da” sound is easier. Totally) Girlie in the middle was “bubba” which was her way of calling her brother – so your story about your little sister made me smile because even though there are only 2 years between them, big brother was all about making sure he was #1!
Our baby’s first word was “dog.” They are a few years older than her, but she still refers to them as “her dogs.”
My baby girl said “hi” before anything else…out of Mama and Dada, she said Dada first of course. 🙄
I’m still waiting for my baby’s first word – I bet these books will help it along!
His first was mama, second was dad and third was auga!
My daughter’s first word was “uh oh!”
I don’t even remember off the top of my head….. how horrible is that! It was probably Dada but I am going to blame my momentary lapse in memory on the 6-month old and lack of sleep.
Both my boys said ‘ dada’ first. Although I think my youngest actually started with ‘uhoh’. My husband refuses to count that 😉
mama
My oldest said “hi” first, then mama. My youngest said mama and oh boy everything is still mama! Except for “go” lol
I am hoping it will be mama!
Mama! 🙂
My son said mama first, but only in a very whiny way of momomomomom
My daughter’s first word was “ball”. 🙂 Made her daddy soooo happy!
Our little girl is only 6 weeks old so we still have some time! But I cannot wait to start hearing her talk, and I hope her first word is mama! Haha 🙂
My daughter’s (oldest) first word was mama. (One point for me) and my son’s first word was ball. (One point for husband)
Is it horrible that I can’t really remember my kids’ first words?! I’m pretty sure it was dada, but I’d have to go back and look in my emails to them to remember for sure!
My oldest and youngest said “dada” first but my middle child said “mama” first
My daughter’s first word was “dada” and I made a video of her asking her who she wants to get her at 4am and she said “dada, dada, dada” 🙂
my son’s first word is “uh-oh” – he makes a lot of messes!
My daughter’s first word was Hi. My son’s first word was dada.
Momma! Lucky me!
i was actually trying to remember this the other day and I don’t remember what it was!
My daughters first word was uh oh and my sons was hot. Both not even close to mama lol
My daughter’s first word was “Daaa” – and while at first we thought it was a fluke, she would should it at my husband emphatically and enthusiastically whenever he entered the room. It was ADORABLE!
My little girl said mama first and I just loved it!
Dada
Shoes!
My older son’s first word was Dada, and it looks like that is going to be my younger son’s forst word, too!
all three boys said Dada first
My daughter’s first word was dada, but it’s so hard to tell if it’s a sound or an intended word! My son turns one thus week and has been saying Mama and Mum and looking at me, so I think that he means it! ❤️
I can’t remember either of my daughters’ first words without looking on Facebook, so I’m not going to look, as that’s cheating. I really need to sleep sometime soon!
My oldest daughter’s first clear word was “hi.” Her little sister said “dada” first.
My sons first word was Dada. My daughter laughs her head off when I say mama, so I’m hopeful she’ll say it first!
So far our girls’ first words have both been dada. I’m 0/3 with getting mama for a first word. Here’s hoping my 9 month old pulls through and gives me the joy of hearing mama first! Lol.
Im pretty sure my oldest son’s first word revolved around teaching or dog to heal. Lol! But my 18mo said something thst sounded like brother before all else.
Hi!
My son’s first word was Dada. I tried so hard to make it Mama, but it didn’t happen. He also decided to call his grandfather Bop and that has stuck and the other grandkids now call him that as well.
My son’s first word was mama but only because I pushed it on him hahaha! I always said mama around him to make sure it was his first word
Haha my daughter’s first word was SHOE. which is ironic because she hates wearing them and always has 😂
Mama was all he said for about 2 months. 🙂